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writes:Hi there,I'm 19 and I've been in a relationship for the past 2 years. To start with I loved being with this girl, however now that we've been together for so long I'm starting to feel like it's not going anywhere. Embarrising as it is to say she is my first "real" girlfriend, and even after being together for two years she still wont 'sleep' with me, and i find myself finding her less attractive. What should I do? Is there something wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): She's your first girlfriend, this relationship has run it's course. You seem ready to move on and try something new. There's nothing wrong with that. It's good that you haven't had sex, because then she would be hurt and you would feel guilty and probably feel you should stay. Break the relationship with her and be young, free and single, with no woman at home to feel guilty about, when you find somebody else that attracts your eye.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Some relationships just aren't meant to be. Two years is a good run especially at your age but I guess it's time to move on. Try to be as kind as you can when you break up with her.
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reader, goodiea  +, writes (25 June 2008):
No there is nothing worng with you. after all you have been with your girlfriend for two years and not "slept" together what i think you should do is try talking to her if you love her about being ready to sleep together if you dont love her tell her the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): There's nothing wrong with not finding someone attractive
anymore.Everyone or almost everyone has gone through this stage.But we need more info.Are you only finding her not
that attractive because she won't sleep with you?Sex is a
very big thing and if she's not ready for it,then if you
truly love her,then you would stay with her until she's ready.(If the reason you're finding her less attractive is
because she won't sleep with you.If that's the case.)
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reader, taina1980 +, writes (25 June 2008):
yes babe there is something wrong... the problem is your age first... second you're obviously not ready to settle down... 3rd your feeling guilt about wanting some booty... you should break up with her cause if you stay you're going to hurt her worst... just be honest, @ 1st she will possibly hate you but sooner or later she will appreciate what you did... you obviously want some & she obviously wants to wait... don't pressure her into doing something that she will regret...you don't need to burden yourself with these type of issues... your young have fun!
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