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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I have been close with a man I met for a couple of months and we've slept together 6 times or so now. Last week i was really drunk and ended up speding the night with one of his non-close friends (we didnt sleep together) anyway he found out and he didnt ask me about it. Instead, he pulled this girl he knows right in front of me and went back to her house and they had sex. I didnt realise how much I like him and it really got to me. We have both made up now but I have no idea where I stand or if he wants to see me again. What do you think I should do, I like him loads but I dont know if he feels the same now. He also doesnt open up to me or tell me how he feels so I dont feel comfortable in asking him.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Generally, when men are into women they knock their door down and make it obvious. When they are not sure or not interested, they are a bit more evasive and elusive! That is my personal experience of the world of dating in my teens and 20's. You may really like him but you cannot make him feel the same way about you. He may like you but you have been to bed with him a couple of times and nothing of a relationship has emerged afterwards. He also went with another girl. I suggest you put this one down to experience and wait until you meet someone who is really into you and makes you feel special. Good luck!
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reader, coolchick99  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 First of all its really rude and immature of him to not talk to you about what happened, but instead to try to get revenge by having sex with another girl..he obviously assumed you slept with the other guy, which is stupid. He seems like a jerk from that alone. If you really like him though, you should just sit down and have an honest talk with him and see what happens! You'll never know how you stand otherwise, and making assumptions and reading into 'signals' will get you nowhere.
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