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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi auntswhile i was going through my marriage separation, i met and had sex with a man who i had known for 2 years, i had worked with him, there was always something between us, he declared he love me and we are ment to be together and the only thing that would make him happy now was for us to be together. He is 30 years older than me.However he went on holidays to France (with his partner but he told me they sleep in separate bedrooms and are not a couple anylonger) but i had time to think and decided that i wanted to go back to my marriage, so i did, so my husband and i are trying again. i am unable to get this man out of my head now, he want to call me every so often but i told him it would not be right as i am now back with my husband. He has respected this and not contacted me.Why is it that i am always thinking about him and cant get him out of my mind...i have to admit the sex with him was great, but with my husband its not fantastic to be honest, but we are trying.thanks
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reader, bebe girlie  +, writes (26 June 2008):
Sometimes when you are in a long term relationship like marriage you get ummmm used to the sex and you both know each others way... And when you try something new and fresh you like it better..Its pretty natural to feel that way...Remember the first time you had sex with your husband..im very sure you liked it and it turned you on...And this exactly what will happen with the new man you had sex with.. as time goes by you will get used to his sex and want some new flesh. So My advise to you is to try and invent new ways in the bedroom with your husband and change his sex routine and that way you will not think about the other person...
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