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writes:Hi I would like to ask a question, I am 28 years old and whilst I have had boyfriends I have never been in a 'serious'relationship or had sex. I have always been waiting for that one special person - I have just started dating a guy who has had a couple of serious relationships and even been engaged, I am so embarressed by my lack of experience, do you think this will be a turn off to him - I dont want to discuss past relationships etc and have managed to dodge that subject up to now - what should I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): Oh, Sweet Pea.......I think it is wonderful for you to save yourself for "The One." By no means do I think you being a virgin will turn this fella off. Just be honest, and tell him that you have never been with a man before, he can either duck his tail and run, or he will hold your hand, and lead you on a wonderful journey. All my prayers are with you, and this difficult decision. God Bless
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reader, Maddog25  +, writes (25 June 2008):
sweetheart. if you were my girlfriend, i would want you to be open with me and release all your thoughts to me. i your a virgin i would care.... i would be more focused on teaching you things! :) it would be fun and i bet things will SKY ROCKET in the following weeks. trust me. tell him. who cares if it takes you a couple of boos.
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reader, Star_07 +, writes (25 June 2008):
 You dont have to disclose anything about your past if you do not want to. That is entirely up to you and personally, I believe things should be kept to yourself.
I think the best thing you can do is be yourself. It doesnt really matter what kind of experience you have or do not have, as long as you are being true to yourself! If he loves you for who you are, then it doesnt matter.
As far as never having sex, when you are ready, tell him that you are virgin and will let him know IF and WHEN you are ready.
Take Care!
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