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writes:This guy and I like each other, and I recently told him I want to have sex with him. Since then he's been acting like I'll be available whenever he's ready leaving me wonder if it will ever happen. Now, suddenly and for the next several weeks I will totally be unavailable because of family obligations, and now he has an attitude about it that I'll not be available. Should I break up with him, or wait and see how he handles my unavailability? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): You asked for sex you didn't ask for a relationship. Because of your approach he's got the impression that you need sex a lot and can't understand why your unavailable. Be as honest as you were when you asked for sex, tell him you'll contact him when you need him but you got other things to do, so he'll just have to wait untill you call. You brought up sex, so the ball is in your court, tell him when and where and what time you'll be ready. He then will have to take it or leave it.
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reader, lushlass93  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 it sounds he is usuing you for sex its your choice to have sex with him and if he doesnt understand and respect the fact you cant have sex with him because you have bigger problems then he isnt exactly respecting you and your decisons if he keeps going this way you should brake up wiht him dont give him sex and see how long he stays wiht you because i could be wrong but chances are hes after sex really
good luck xxxxxxxx
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