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A friend and I were discussing how long it can take a committed relationship to start

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Question - (25 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, *fden30 writes:

In my experience (I've had 5 serious girlfriends and I'm 29 yrs old), if a guy approaches a girl, asks her out, she agrees and they start seeing each other, within 1-2 months either a committed relationship starts or they decide to be friends. How likely is it that a committed relationship will start if within 1-2 months it hasnt happened?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2008):

Unfortunately there are no rules, you just have to chill out and take it as it comes.

If you want commitment offer her a ring - anything before that is just a verbal agreement.

I've been seeing guys for months and never been serious with them. I met my husband and knew within a couple of weeks he was the one for me. Everyone and every relationship is different.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, Star_07 United States +, writes (25 June 2008):

Star_07 agony auntI dont think there is a time limit of when a committed relationship can begin, it of course depends on the people you are talking about!

You can be in a committed relationship from Day 1 or you can date a while, a few months or whatever then decide to be in a committed relationship. I think that if it hasnt happened in 1 or 2 months and that is what the person wants then he/she needs to tell the person that they want a committed relationship or at least an exclusive relationship (no dating anyone else).

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A female reader, misfitschik66 Canada +, writes (25 June 2008):

misfitschik66 agony auntwell it depends on the person really and how comfortable they feel in the relationship my boyfriend and i dated for 4 months before he said he was committed to me completely(as in he wanted to be with me for a long time) he said he was committed to me from the very start of our relationship(as in not seeing anyone else besides me) and then it took another 8 months for us to make the decision to move in together

like i said it all depends on the situation and the comfort in the relationship and it depends on the person!

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