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I'm confused about my girlfriend. What should I do?

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Question - (25 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i have been with my gf for 5 years i am 21 she is 19 she has always told lots of lies she told me she was older and already had a kid when we started going out i have never been with another girl just her but she doesn't believe me she always says that i have sex while im at work (im a doorman) she doesn't believe me when i say it isn't true but she also says she is bisexual and would like us to have a threesome with another girl but she gets pissed off if i suggest a girl and she does not find her attractive i would like to have a threesome but don't think she is ready for it

any advice?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008):

Um....Hummm....All I can say is run for the fastest exit. She lies for number one...No relationship can survive on a foundation of lies, and next she wants to see you have sex with another woman....Buddy Boy, you need to run as fast as you can as far as you can. This woman likes games, not true everlasting love. God Bless.!

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A male reader, Chumley2222 United States +, writes (25 June 2008):

Chumley2222 agony auntI'm confused here. You know she lies to you - that's a big no no in a relationship to begin with. I mean the term relationship has 'trust' right in its definition. If you know you can't trust her, why are you still with her? The fact that she is thrusting accusations of cheating in your face strongly suggests guilt on her part, and that she may in fact be doing the cheating herself and by making those claims she can pseudo feel better about her own wrong actions.

A threesome?? From the way you describe her, she's not even ready for a twosome. My advice to you is to bail out of this relationship - and FAST. If there's no trust, then there's no reason to stick around. Break it off soon, because you're only going to get more confused, and she's going to end up doing something that may hurt or scar you for a long time.

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