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writes: I have been seeing my coworker's roommate for a few months now, and by "seeing" I mean seeing eachother at events and parties we both attend and then sleeping together on occasion. We saw a lot more of each other when he wasnt working two jobs, but now that he is, I only see him through friends. We have both expressed our sentiment towards relationships: neither of us want one. Herein lies the issue-I am starting to develop feelings for him. Wow! Bet you didn't see that one coming..ha ha. Anyway, the other night my coworker and I got s-m-a-s-h-e-d drunk and I had to sleep over because I was in no shape to drive. I ended up sleeping in his roommate's bed, but because he didnt necessarily invite me over per se, I feel like I might have over stepped something. I text messaged him "Thanks again for letting me crash at your place, I owe you." What do you guys think? Have you ever found yourself in mine (or his) position? If so, what went down?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAsk oldersister, you're very sharp. I can see my footing slip, and am making every effort to reposition myself to an equal or upper hand. Truthfully, I feel like I am investing in a low stock in anticipation of a bull market. In september, his internship will be over and he will be more available to hang out like before. So if I pepper these next few months with a few appearances, we will have maintained a very thin thread of interest and maintained a FRIENDSHIP through a very rough time, and this is something he can appreciate (I think). I can not fault him for my changing the rules of our "game," so I will bite my tongue. But I am still curious about the drunk-sleepover situation. I am wondering if I looked manipulative or like I was intentionally weaseling my way into his bed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBingo-no response.
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