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writes:Im with this girl who im very attracted to mentally and physically. shes 17 shes smart and has a voice older for her age. we are bascially taking it slow. and its almost perfect bc like she said, i dont have to prove anything when im with you. like i feel the same way. n shes not talkin to anybody. an i actually was kind of talkinn to somebody but i dont think i want to talk to them bc of this new girl. but im just trying to say is this to good to be true?.. and are there some things that she would like me to do? like are there things i should know? bc im not good with relationships lol Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (15 July 2008):
 Identify what her particular emotional needs are, and continue to address them. Protecting her reputation, cater to the little girl in her, address any fear of abandonment, handle whatever her sexuality is, be honest with her even if it would upset her, make her feel safe and protected and so on. If you continue to address her emotional needs, your relationship has a strong chance of lasting long term.
Most important, never let her become to feel like your mother. She is your lover/partner, not your mother.
-Frank B Kermit
author of Everything Out Of Her Mouth Is A Test: A Man's Guide to the Emotional Needs of Women
www.franktalks.com
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reader, Nessie Jay  +, writes (15 July 2008):
Hey buddy. It sounds like she is already very impressed with you. Just keep doing whatever it is your doing, it seems to be working. Good for you.
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