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female
reader, scrazy  +, writes (15 July 2008):
 Well you have two options:
Man up and go to the clinic to get checked out - there's nothing to be scared of, they're not going to cut off your manhood if they find something wrong with it.
They see stuff like this everyday, it's nothing new for them.
OR
You stop having sex, because you don't want to go a clinic and make sure that you haven't contracted any STI's, let alone impregnated any of these girls you've slept with (I do hope you've been using a condom!)
The choice is yours.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Put on your big boy pants and go, firstly. Stop having unsafe sex, secondly. If you can't handle sex - and its consequences - like an adult, then you shouldn't be having sex at all. Save it for when you have some brains.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): I'm sorry but if you are not mature enoguh to handle going to a sex clinic maybe you shouldn't be having sex. At the very least stop having sex with girls until you know if you are clear.
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male
reader, jkoh  +, writes (15 July 2008):
 it is there job to check. just go. There is nothing to be afraid of. It would be much worse not to go. what if you do have somthing. They might cacth it early and you'll be fine. Also Im pretty sure this stuff is confidential.
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female
reader, LIERIN +, writes (15 July 2008):
 GO! There is nothing to be scared of ! You will be ok! Just do it
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female
reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 July 2008):
Be a man and get some balls and just do it.
If you are too much of a scared little boy to go and get a check up then you really aren't old enough to be having sex.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Why so scared? The people at the clinic see people like you every day and it's routine for them. Wouldn't it be a relief to know that you're clear of any infection? Or if you're not, wouldn't it be sensible to get something done about it?
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male
reader, Uncle Sneaker +, writes (15 July 2008):
 Just go to the clinic for a check. Nothing to be scared of.
NOT going to the clinic IS something to be scared of.
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