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I think he's into me, but he has a boyfriend, and I don't want to ruin our friendship!

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Question - (15 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I am a gay male and I am 18 years old. I have a friend who recently helped me accept myself for who i am. Anyway, me and him have shared some past experiences with each other. Not serious. But since I met him I have been highly attracted to him. And now that I have gotten to know him more and more I find myself liking him! ALOT!

But as I was getting ready to tell him how I felt he told me that he got back together with his ex bf. Now, their relationship is a long distance one, and doesn't sound that solid due to the fact that I hear them questioning each other all the time. And the bf doesn't really like him going out with his friends and when he does he gets mad at him. And my friend(who I like) isn't a big fan of this!

But we see each other just about everyday and are on the phone or texting each other all the time. When we are around each other we are always flirting with each other. And when I go to look at him I look up and he is always looking back at me. I am really confused because as much as I like him I don't to ruin our friendship at the same time. And all of our friends tell me that when they see us around each other that they can tell that he is into me? What to do? What to do? Hope this all makes since. Thanks!

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A male reader, efc1981 United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2008):

A few months ago a mate of mine said he was bi since i was still undecided we got together on way home from pub it was quite and had a bit of fun. since then he never really talked to me, think he wanted to try it but hated it and wish he never did it,

So it is very hard it runied my friendship with this one guy but i still pushing on and one day he might start talking to me again, but i will not be doing anything more with him

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008):

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Hi Purple1234

Thank you for your answer I do agree with you about the fact that I need to talk to him about how I feels....Do you have any ideas or suggestions on how I could approach him about all of this. If so it would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!

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