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writes: Firstly I'm a bisexual male.I've met another man online who I'm in love with. I live in Europe, he lives in America. We will be able to see each other next year.He loves me too, but he also has a boyfriend, also an online thing. They're going through a rough patch at the moment, but he never told me that he had a boyfriend when we met. I have since confronted him about it, and he says that his boyfriend is ignoring his messages and he doesn't know if they love each other anymore. He says he feels miserable when we aren't together and I feel the same way.What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): Don't listen to whatever bullshit these people are giving you about "blah blah blah online relationships don't work blah blah go outside you loser" my brother met his wife on the internet a few years ago and now they have one of the best marriages of all the people I know.
Just tell this person how you feel and tell him that yu don't want to be in a relationship if he already has a boyfriend, make him make a choice.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (16 July 2008):
You don't really know anything about this guy. He could be anyone. You've built him up in your head and he could very well turn out to be different.
Even if he is completely genuine and exactly as you think... he's 3 timing you!
There is absolutely no positive side to you being in this relationship. Get out and meet guys in the real world and find out what a real relationship feels like.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): Hi
if his messages have been ignored and he does not know whether they still love each other, would that be because he has not had a reply? be careful or you could be playing second fiddle.
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