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anonymous
writes:Im married for 4 years, We are doing fine, we live a simple life, and have a beautiful baby girl,,, i thought marrying him would be the best for me,,,i was wrong i was mostly unhappy of a lot of things he was nice he do everything for me, everything i want he gave me, his family was nice to me even his sisters,,I don't have any problems,,,its a picture of a perfect family, but i kept a secret,,i don't really love himi try and try to love him, but why i can't llove him,,,it was awfull leaving like this ....then last month i ran away riding trains going nowhere, places i've never seen before,,and i was happy, i never felt happy,,so i decided to divorce him,,,i can't continue living like this pretending its ok, that i should stay because of our daugther,,, i wanted to have a new life,,a life with no more pretending, but seeing him cry breaks my heart,,,he stop eating and lost weight he wanted me to stay,,but i can't
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Your situation sounds very difficult and painful. I'm sorry you have to go through it, but I believe that you should follow your heart and divorce him. It would be worse for him in the long run if you were to stay because you would never fully be his... both of you would probably hurt more than if you ended it now. If you will truly never be in love with your husband it will also benefit your daughter to be surrounded by genuinely happy people - which may only happen if you get a divorce. Do what you feel is right. Don't stay to please him or anybody else. He will recover and hopefully find someone who can love him back. Your daughter will also be alright if you make sure she gets lots of love. Just trust yourself and that if you take action based on what you believe is right everything will find a way of working out.
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