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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Iam 24 years of age. i have recently met a 42 year old man who is very kind, loving and considerate in evry possible way. However, the age difference between us makes me fear to commit to him. he is asking me to marry him but his age is an imposing hinderance to me. please advise. thanks. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (15 July 2008):
And the problem is????
My ex husband was 15 years older than me... It didn't bother me AT ALL. I would have stayed with him forever, except he didn't treat me well.
Where there is LOVE...age doesn't matter.... you are BOTH adults.
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male
reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (15 July 2008):
As long as you are both of legal age, and that the relationship would be based on mutual affection and respect, and not to fill some emotionally dysfunctional void on either of your parts, why not just go out with him?
I just completed a lecture on the topic of older men dating younger women and the emotional needs involved for both. It will be ready for sale by Friday July 20th. Check it out then if you are still unsure.
-Frank B Kermit
www.lulu.com/franktalks
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