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writes: My fiancé went to his ex-girlfriend's place. He says their "just friend". It never bother me that they "friends" until now. Later he called asking me to pick up because his drunk and couldn't drive himself home (we're living together). When I got their his ex told me come in. Then it happen my fiancé jumped her began making out with her. She didn't push back or anything. Its Like he wanted me to see it. I dumped him on the spot. Was that the right thing to do?but there one burning question, is it my fault?
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reader, sweetdixie1971  +, writes (15 July 2008):
glad you kicked his butt to the curb!!! exactly what I would've done too!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): You have most definatley done the right thing, for someone to put you in that position whether or not he was drunk is just disgusting! If I was in this position I would kick his ass out and get on with my life. If you take him back that memory will always live with you and end up destroying your confidence and relationships with other men. Not all men are like that so kick him to the curb girl and start your life fresh.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Wow, what an a-hole. You absolutely did the right thing and it is absolutely not your fault. To think you almost married someone who would do such a horrible thing! Don't look back. You're better off without that loser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Good you dump the guy! I work at a nightclub and get hit on all the time with the finest guys and girls, but I would never be unfaithful to my man. And he has female friends, but since he has been with me, he would never even go see a harmless movie with his female friends (even though i trust him and would let him go) because some of his female friends are his ex and he remain friends with them. But he wouldn't do anything with them because he doesn't want me to have any doubts or give me any insecurities to not trust him or put himself in a situation where he would be tempted to cheat. If he ever did....as much as I love him, I dump him in a heartbeat and won't take him back. And he probably would break up with me if he did do something wrong because he knows...shame on him! and since he cares about me...he would want me to be happy...so find you mr.right and forget him and her because they're going to be unhappy and you'll be with someone who would never do that to you!
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reader, misfitschik66  +, writes (15 July 2008):
 you did the right thing , drunk or not it's still not right and he knew what he was doing if he knew to call you to pick you up because he was to drunk then he knew he was making out with his ex in front of you.. it is not your fault he is just a pig
move on you can find better and one that can treat you right and know enough not to do something so horrible like that to you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): No, it isn't your fault. You can't make someone do the right thing, either they do it or don't. It's up to them and them alone. Besides, I think he is incredibly inmature and heartless for doing that to you. Stand your ground, and find a man than deserves and respects you. You did the right thing. Hold strong to your convictions, and don't let him sucker you back to him.
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