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writes:I have met a guy a few months ago, who is really nice,and that I have a lot in common with and is saying all the right things to me to make me fall in love with him.I have one problem tho, when we alone it's just me and him and our chemistry and passion.He is always telling me that he wants me to be apart of his life and wants to go away with me and is talking in the lines of getting married and having kids.Whenever we out and around people I catch him looking at other women and is weary of his roming eye.Is this only because he wants to show me he can get any women if I don't want him or that he is not being genuine.please help me make sense of what this guy is after. Reply to this Question
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reader, Mark25 +, writes (15 July 2008):
 I think that you may be reading too much into it. Men have a roaming eye. And so do women. It doesn't sound to me like he's doing it deliberately to hurt you. He's doing it because he's a man. Tell him how you feel. He'd probably be shocked to learn that he's upsetting you. If you tell him, you'll probably find that he stops doing it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Could be both, but hes not really showing the right signs if he does want to be with you. Sure he can argue that he wasn't with you at the time and that he was merely looking, but at the same time if he really wanted you it would just be you in his mind, and not other women.
Are you sure its like that?! Because men are allowed to look at other women.
Sorry if all sounds harsh and hard on you, but surely you'd rather want to know now and find the man you want to spend the rest of your life?
Your young you have lots of options. If your really worried about it then ask him. I know its a bit, all the same info. and that, communication is just an 'excuse answer'. But why assume?! All problems can be solved with communication!?
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