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writes:I really became very fond of thuis man although I hadnt known him very long. But it can happen. However he has been honest and says he doesnt want a relationship but would stay friends if we wanted to e mail now and again. I find it hard always wondering how he is, if he is well etc and think I would be better getting out of hisw life compeltely do you agree. I dont think I can stand this half toe in the water. We got on well , we haqve a lot in common and although we live miles away I own a flat jsut two miles from where he lives purely by coincidence. he is not married in fact he was widowed two years ago but I think I would be better getting out compeltely becasue its too painful for me do you agree? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): I agree with your hunch. Get out of there. For one he will have constant memories of his wife and is probably why he doesn't want a relationship.
If he doesn't want a relationship because of that, he'll never have a relationship.
Two, I know how it is being almost obsessed with someone. But get out while you can, before you sink in faster. Find someone else who does actually want to be with you.
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