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I can't keep lying to my boyfriend. I still love him. I know I do. Please help

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Question - (15 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom, *ticky_fun writes:

Ive been with my boyfriend for over 9 months now and i have never been tempted by anyone else. However, I met someone at college about a week ago and we clicked instantly. We exchanged mobile numbers and msn addresses and have been talking every day since we met.

We have both developed feelings for eachother, well, thats what i think. I know its wrong and very soon to be thinking this, but i cant help how i feel. Yesterday i decided enough was enough and was going to tell him we cant keep flirting with eachother and so on. When he asked me who i was to hurt, him or my boyfriend, i couldnt bring myself to say him. I cried my eyes out that night.

I wanted to meet him to see if there is really something there so i asked my boyfriend if i could go and see him (my boyfriend knows this guy likes me but doesnt know how i feel) to tell him im not interested.

However, i know thats not going to happen. What do i do? Im really confused, and i cant keep lying to my boyfriend. I still love him. I know i do. Please help x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008):

Hey i know how u feel ive got the same problem, what ive done as looked at it this way..

who do i see myself with in years to come and who do i see myself just having fun with.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008):

I'm sorry that you are having to go through something like this...But this is just have life is. I know you love your boyfriend, but that dosen't mean that you have to forsake all others and marry him. Perhaps the best thing to do is take a break from your boyfriend...for both of your sakes...That way you can see how your feelings grow with gentelman #2. Just be honest with your boyfriend. Please know I will pray for you! Good Luck Sweet Pea!!

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