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writes:is it possible for me to happy with 2 different girls? without them knowing. i dont want to lose the girl im with now. and the girl in my past is someone close to me and i dont want to lose her either. Reply to this Question
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 It is perfectly possible to have genuine and deep love for two or more people. Some people will try to tell you that ain't so but it is. There are situations in which it can be made to work particularly when you are older but at your age it isn't going to work for long and you have 95% chance of it ending badly. Besides which, if you are going to treat both of them well and sustain the lying then it is going to take time and money that you likely don't have at your age.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 It is possible for you to be happy with two girls at the same time. That is also very wrong.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 if your happy hurting two girls than your not right plain and simple.
Sorry but you cannot have your cake and eat it too.
Leave both as if you think you can have both, you shouldnt have either
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 July 2008):
You can be perfectly happy going round and hurting people. You could also go round and stab 2 girls and be perfectly happy.
However, a normal human being wouldn't do that because it is wrong and causes pain and suffering for no reason.
Go and grow up little boy, and don't date again until you have learned right from wrong.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, natasia +, writes (15 July 2008):
 It doesn't work. It might seem great for a time, and you're looking at it as if you're doing them a favour, I can see (neither of them is losing you), but honestly, within time the lying will eat away at you and you'll end up hating yourself.
And of course it is horrible and wrong to lie and cheat!
But you don't seem too concerned about that - ok, but the main thing is, it never works. Choose one or the other.
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (15 July 2008):
 What are you asking? Is it okay to be with TWO girls?
Um.No. It's not. That's not fair to either girl, they shouldn't have to share you with someone else and if they don't about each other, that also constitutes as CHEATING.
Which is dishonest. And does nothing but harm relationships.
Sorry to tell you this, but it's one girl or the other. You have to make the choice of who is best for you.
Take care.
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