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writes:i have a scary problem, me and my ex have been good friends since we split up, or so i thought,im well known for falling asleep in the middle of a conversation/disscusion/even an argument after a few drinks,what happened tonight i havent a clue, i know he was going on about something, im not sure what,but it didnt seem too important,next thing ,i wake up to him sitting on my legs ,(iv fallen asleep on the couch)and naturally try to kick him off not realising what is goin on,then he starts shoutin at me callin me all sorts askin were my money is and calling a taxi,i dont remeber much else as i fell asleep again, i woke up again to him shoving me and shouting at me again about were my money was and because he was in my face and i was just waking up, i put my had out to get him outta my face, unfortunatly hitting him in the face,when i woke up and realised wht i had done, all he did was go on about my money , i dont know why, but my door has a hole init where he has punched it, iv not a clue what has happened whilst ive been asleep, but he has flipped out over somthing....but i dont know what, after me screaming at him to leave (i was terified as i dont know what iv done or meant to of done as iv been asleep,and i dont know what has flipped him out to start with,but iv never been so scared in my own home)when trying to lock the door behind him,he actually bent my front door key,so i couldnt lock it properly, then he sent a text saying "see you in court",apparently when i lashed out in my sleep to get him out of my face i hit him by the eye and it has bruised by his eye(from what he says) ...........can he really take me to court over it? ? and what could happen to me ?? can i really get in to trouble over somthing i havent conciously done?please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys i know its been a while since i posted, i lost the password to get on to this site, but it all blew over eventually, he didnt try to take me to court, and nothing has been done about it , though he did make a point of telling the people in the bar that i work with how he had got his black eye. though they were supportive about it toward me .
i think its all tottaly over with now . thanks for your help guys
and also i keep a very good distance from him now aswel,
as for the comment of keeping off hte sauce-lol-
i always do it , once im tired , i say im sleepy and im out , its not just through drinking its any time , but more after drinking .......
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (15 July 2008):
 Go to the police! Your ex sounds like a mad man!
Make sure he stays away from you and don't trust a word that he says - I highly doubt he'll take you to court and even if he tries, there's not enough proof for it to look like more then an accident. Which it was.
Change the locks on your doors and get the hole fixed.
And now that I think of it, you could probably take HIM to court for property damages.
Hope everything works out!
XO
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (15 July 2008):
 I don't know about the laws in your country but I do know you need to lay off the sauce. Obviously your body doesn't metabolize alcohol well. You may end up seriously hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Hi
I think as it (allegedly) happened in your own home, it is classed as a domestic! but don't be worrying too much he could be playing mind games.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 July 2008):
It's unlikely that the police would do you for assault, as there is so little evidence that you hit him in a non-accidental way. There is far more evidence that he committed criminal damage.
Ring the police and get a crime number so you can claim on insurance and get new locks fitted and fix the hole in the door.
Then get this guy out of your life, he's violent and manipulative.
Good Luck!! xx
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