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writes:HELP!,I ejaculate much to fast while masturbating!5minutes in and I'm gone, I try resisting(like stopping altogether), This works only like two times.But then when iv stopped i can still feel the semen getting ready to come out, At this point i try to hold it in, like I'm holding in Urine, I'm trying my hardest to think about other stuff, but it still comes out.What do i do? , will this ruin my sex life in the future?I'm only 14, but this has got me REALLY worried, if i can't even stop myself from ejaculating while masturbating, how will i stop myself from ejaculating when I'm with a women? seeing as how it's 100 times better with a women, i don't know what to do.PLEASE help!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 July 2008):
 It can be false, or true. Who cares?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh, another question (sorry to bother)
My friends tell me that they have lost there virginity, but they are only 14 like me.
They said they lasted for 30 minutes with the girl.
After reading this i think it's false :/
But what do you people think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell thanks guys, a lot of my chest now.
But quickly can someone tell me what libido means?
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (16 July 2008):
I wonder what "professional" means here, pal. Every man needs to learn to control his own ejaculation. Don't believe me, but evidence: if every girl dumped the clumsy guy, then no one would learn anything at all.
It can be fun!
I suggest you start learning when you're an adult in legal terms. I suggest you don't do it without a condom until you have a partner you can trust and rely on, and certainly not before you can make yourself responsible for a pregnancy.
Everyone has been in your shoes. Don't despair!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGah, I'm just scared when it comes down to it, If i ejaculate to fast, she will be disappointed and leave me for a professional.
What age do you guys suggest i start learning?
Thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGah, I'm just scared when it comes down to it, If i ejaculate to fast, she will be disappointed and leave me for a professional.
What age do you guys suggest i start learning?
Thanks again.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (15 July 2008):
I forgot: Your masturbation won't ruin your sex life with a woman. But, believing that you just can't improve will.
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reader, natasia +, writes (15 July 2008):
 ps and I've never met a woman who isn't happy when her man ejaculates. so long as you care about her pleasure as well, there's no problem. if you just ejaculate and then roll off and go to sleep, though - well, that's when she will begin to think you are not the best, probably!!
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (15 July 2008):
You're doing it all wrong, pal.
The point of masturbating is having an orgasm, which in turn leads to ejaculation. I know you know this.
It seems you're trying to learn how to last longer, but, since a girl is unavailable (or whatever), you're trying to last longer in masturbation. This is not the way to go.
Yes, it's way better with a woman, but you will need to be with one in order to learn how to last longer.
I do commend you on your wanting to learn, however. THAT is a good way to go. Don't assume you know it all.
You're young to be having sex, because of all the responsibilities it brings along. So, don't just rush to find a woman and begin your "learning" right now.
Take care.
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reader, natasia +, writes (15 July 2008):
Don't be daft. You're young. You haven't had sex with a woman. Of course you will be ridiculously over excited and may not even last as long as her getting it out of your trousers, let alone any part of her body touching it!! This is completely NORMAL for an adolescent boy!! Your body is at it's most efficient at getting someone pregnant right now, and ejaculating 2 seconds after getting in there is the best way!
Calm down. Five minutes is a long time. It doesn't matter how long it takes (much worse if you COULDN'T do it). And over time, as you get more experienced with sex and women, you will calm down and be able to last longer. When I first met my partner, he couldn't last more than about 30 seconds (and he was 30 yrs old, not your very very young age!). Then, after weeks and weeks of lots of sex, he got to being able to last much much longer. It all just takes time.
Be happy about it! It's a great thing.
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