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writes:Ok im 14 and ive never been kissed... there is this guy i really like and im going to the mall with him in a week... he told me he to kiss me... i want to kiss him but im scared Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): honestly i mean of course youre nervous because i mean god you want it to go perfectlywhat i would do if i was you is try and forget he said he wants to kiss you otherwise youre going to be thinking about it and its going to make you more nervous belive me as long as you like the guy it should come naturaland good luck not that youll need it xx:)
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 I had my first kiss at 14 too, just make sure you lean to the side and start off slow.
As long as you know what your doing, you shouldnt be too nervous.
Make sure your breath is fresh, to avoid embarassment!
To stop nerves beforehand, try to think about something else to calm down.
When the time comes, you'll be fine!
xx
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reader, jessica_04 +, writes (15 July 2008):
your first kiss is always the scariest one, i am 15 right now but i got my first kiss when i was 14 also! i was also really nervous i was actuall shaking and i was imberesed lol. you'll get over your fear once your at the moment but just dont get nervous cuz trust me that would make it much more harder, just relax oky! wish you the best luck!
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reader, SMS  +, writes (15 July 2008):
Hello Im a 14 year old girl and i agree i was mega nervous having my first kiss ! just dont let it get to you i still get nervous now kissing boys that i havent kissed before (using tongue)and trust me ive kissed a lot of boys,it will happen at the right moment in time and im sure it will be perfect if this boy really likes you he's not going to drop you because of one kiss just relax and let him lead the way, good luck !! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): just be yourself. talk about things that you see in the mall. try to have fun by talking to him and laughing. your not afraid of anything just thinking the negative. just dont rush anything go with the flow and take things slow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Oh I agree, your fist kiss can make you very nervous ecspecially when you know its coming! To keep yourself from being afraid think about the boy, not the kiss itself. I think your boyfriend might be afraid to, he has probably never kissed anyone either, so this is a good experiance for the both of you. Every kiss can make you nervous, its a part of life, try not to be so afraid, after all this is the boy you love, don't be scared, go for it sweetie!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Ah, I remember when I was a 14 year old never-been-kissed girl... I was so anxious and wondered how my first kiss was going to be like! I didn't know what to expect, what to do... I wanted it so much, yet I didn't because I was afraid of the whole experience.
Then this gorgeous, charming guy starts liking me. And then they tell him that I'm gonna be at this party that he's going, and that I want to hook up with him! And he says he wants to hook up with me too!! I was SO terrified. The worst thing is he knew that I had no experience and I knew that he had kissed a share of girls.
Well, as awkward as first kisses go, they "accidentally" left us alone at the party. There we were talking to each other... until finally, he said something like "Can I kiss you?"... AWKWARD!!! And I said yes, I was so terrified, but I let him take the lead. And it was AMAZING! The only bad thing was that I didn't know what to do with my hands... but still, it was a perfect first kiss.
Just let yourself go, and if possible, let him lead. The easiest way though, is to kiss, like a peck, but longer, no lip movement. After a few seconds, you may proceed to moving your lips a bit. When you're more comfortable with him, you may start using your tongue. But only when you feel ready, each person knows when it's the right time.
Good luck, and pucker up!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Hey don't be pressured if you are not comfortable then don't do it besides do you really want to kiss him or is it pressure from your friend to do it.
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