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writes:My question is how to you get over someone who I know does not care the least about me but I have formed feelings for anyway and from time to time I have to bump into this person? It just seems like I start to forget about him and then I end up bumping into him and the same feelings start stirring up inside me , I start wondering why can't I get to know this person more , why can't he see how much I could care for him, anyway its a crush that I have on a guy that will never be because he made it obvious that he is not interested and now I am very crushed. Any advice , help.
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reader, Twilight#1 +, writes (16 December 2008):
 I'm in the same situation. Its simply awful. My best suggestion would be to try to remove yourself completely from his presence. Try not to bump into him (such as if you know that _____ is where you see him, try not to go there/if you can)... and only time will heal your broken heart. Maybe if you started dating other guys and start filling your agenda so that you're very occupied with life so that you're not thinking of him often. Working out also helps relieve stress and anxiety...
Pamper yourself... make yourself feel beautiful...
Buy new clothes, shoes, makeup... do something different with your hair...
I hope I helped
Christine ^.^
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): Hey! If he has been very clear that he isn't interested I would forget it. BUT...there is always a chance that he might change his mind if he saw more of you but then you might get hurt if over time if he doesn't. If you do decide to "coincidentally" be where he is, don't be surprised if you get hurt but keep your eyes open - you never know who else might show up!
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reader, xxsecretsxx +, writes (16 December 2008):
 It's like a high school crush, hun. You bump into him every once in the while, not really something substantial. You really don't even know him well either.
I say you start looking into other more open and interested men. If the time comes where you and your boy of the time bump into him and you find that he seems surprised, or jealous think about it.
But i encourage you to explore your options. Maybe even try lunch with him and two other friends, not a double date just lunch. Get to know him better, find out his quirks.
try it out
-trich
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