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writes:okay so... this is kinda long. im going to start since my son was born. 2 weeks after my son was born his dad gets locked up for 1 year and 4 months. when he finally got out he was staying with me but things changed as in his attitude and mine. what i wanted to change about him didnt and wat i didnt want him to change did. anyway i was taking care of him for 4 years and he didnt take care of me or his son financially. in july, again, he got locked up and just got out on dec 9. i miss him so much and i havent seen him. what should i do? he doesnt want to see me because i left him while he was in there but i thought i was going to be able to jus drop him and i cant. i cant stop thinkin of him dreamin of him. it sucks. i left him cuz he couldnt even take care of himself so i took care of him financially. and i wanted to stop that but now i realize how much i really do love him... should i leave it as is or should i try n talk to him? please i need advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, maria14r +, writes (18 December 2008):
maria14r is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbefore he was in there for assault and the last time he was in there was for violation of parole. thank you both for your answers. i think i will jus leave it as much as it hurts. if i didnt mind taking care of him then i would be with him but that is a big problem in our relationship. I only had one child not two.
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reader, Anonny  +, writes (16 December 2008):
Yes - try and talk to him! - His pride may be hurt if you had already left him - but just try talking and explaining - he may not realise what you are feeling!
I also am supporting a guy financially by giving him bits of cash here and there but when you love someone you are willing to do ANYTHING for them - so get in touch and let him realise how much you've done for him!!
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