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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So me and this guy that I have been seeing for about 2 and a half months recently started being a little more sexual with each other. I'm a virgin but he's not and his reputation is somewhat of a player. Anyway, we aren't yet in an official relationship and I would like to be if we continue to hook up like this. I'm worried he's just going to use me and then leave me. Basically, a couple days he went down my pants and since then, I feel like I would be a lot more comfortable if we were in an official relationship. Recently I've asked him about where he thinks this is going, but he hasn't been very responsive. We were supposed to hang out today but he blew me off. He says he wants to make it up to be tomorrow or the next day but I don't know.. Should I wait it out a little bit longer? Do guys need more time to make a commitment or is this guy just looking for a chase and he's getting it? Help!
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reader, thetruth357 +, writes (16 December 2008):
He's a player if people say he is. People ususally aren't wrong about someone. I'd back off and think....
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