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writes:I have a question.. I kinda already know the answer, I guess I just need conformation. Here it goes.. So I've worked with this guy for a few months. He is sooo hot. So hot its distracting. I find myself not focusing @ work because I stare @ him.. A lot. And I am responsible for very large amounts of money @ all times and 1 mistake can be a disaster. I recently began speaking to him and found out that he is married. We have talked several times and he has told me the whole " were not happy.. She doesn't understand me" speech. Which im sure is to open the possibility of an affair. But its strange.. I find myself not really too concerned that he is married.. He is that smokin hot! In my opinion.. I should sleep with him a few times, get bored with him in a few weeks, like I usually do, and then get over it. Then I think I can get back to my work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): Are you really that stupid, you are quite unreal.STOP nad read other stories on this site and you will see the outcome of your actions. STOP before you ruin everyones life, you must be mad to think as you do.Do you think he would ever tell you that he is happily married NO of course he wont,that wont get him what he wants will it, you can not be that stupid surely, you are more likely to lose your job when he is finished with you not you with him, read other stories like this and you will waken up to the hurt and anguish caused by your way of thinking, read Mae5 story Sept 18th "My paramour used me for sex" and other linked stories or replies and you will see whaat an aafair can do to lives, so what he is hot,he is MARRIED to another woman is that not cool you off a bit, get on with your work and leave married people alone right now...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): okay, stop right there!!! This man is married! This may not mean much to you but it does to God and it does to his wife! I don't care how smokin' hot he is. He is not yours to touch!!!!!! Now, where I come from, a vow between a man and a woman that is made in front of God is sacred. It's called Adultry if you cheat!!! Now, think about this, do you want to sin for this man?!?! Just because you can't keep your D@@@@ eyes off him?!?!
Get a life and go get your own man!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): Interesting, I find myself in a similar situation. But, I'm the guy with the family, looking at the hot, now single with kids, lady at work. I just want to help scratch an inch that must be there. But, I look at what I will give up - a wonderful lady, 3 daughters, and a committment I made over 15 years ago. I guess what I am saying is, while the gal at work is every adventure I dream of at night, nothing is as good as a dream. I want to be there to satisfy her deepest desire, but I know I will not be able to maintain the performance or excusses. After all, take a look at this letter...I, I, I, I, selfish to put my desires over those of my wife and daughters. Besides, that's just what the world needs, another father proving to 3 daughters that men are selfish. Thank you, Sandra, I see now, to satisfy an inch, while it would be fun and pleasurable, would only lead to heartache, thrown away affection, and a temporary relief of an itch that can never be satisfied. At least until tomorrow when I must look into her eyes once more.
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reader, kurayami3nobara +, writes (16 December 2008):
Bad. Idea. All around! You're being selfish, because all you want is to sleep with him because he's 'hot', give no regard to how you might ruin his marriage because of your own wants/needs. He married her for a reason, and an affair is always messy business. Don't be tempted! Go out cruising the singles clubs or find someone online who isn't married to go bang out a few quickies with, and perhaps that will make you a bit less distracted with him at work.
Please don't ruin someone else's life just because you're a slave to your urges, okay... ?
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