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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: my new boyfriend does not get an erection while looking at me or touching me. He only gets an erection if I am stimulating him manually or oraly and likes his butt played with. He said he's not really in to anal sex and when we do have sex he doesn't stay fully hard. He knows how to touch me and any chance he has he's all over me, always kissing me and grabbing me. When we are in bed he always wants me naked and says that I am hot.....Is it just nerves because this is new or is this a sign that he might be gay? gay men love me and always tell me they would want to be with me if they were straight or pick me to be their 'girl' they would hook up with...Should I worry he might be gay? Does this happen to other men? Am i freaking out for no reason?
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reader, rcn +, writes (16 December 2008):
You said he's normal wanting to be with you, and says your beautiful. He's all over you when he gets a chance. If he was gay, I think getting all over you would seem more like an obligation than something he wants to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe only gets an erection when I touch his penus...nothing else is that normal?
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reader, rcn +, writes (16 December 2008):
I think you're freaking out. I personally don't get excited when seeing a girl naked, watching most porn, or going to a strip club. I get excited by physical interaction.
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