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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I was with my ex for 2 and half years we lived together and talked bout marriage. I was close hearted and emotionless didn't tell him i loved him. and we broke up once but got back together cuz i said i would try and be more loving and I did 100% then he lost his job and got bummed. we broke up he said he didn't want to have a future with me and I deserved better and he dated around for a few months and it is now going on 2 yrs and he got back with an ex but has since cheated on her with me after us not even talking or seeing eachother for 2 yrs. It has happened more than once. He said he didnt go back into our relationship the 2nd time completly that he was reserved and it wasn't fair to me or him thats why he broke it off. I can't seem to get over him and I am trying to convince myself that he doesn't care bout me but i keep fallin back and cheating because I truly love him.. how do i stop, why is he coming to me to cheat on his girl,
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reader, rcn +, writes (16 December 2008):
 Why does he keep coming to you? Because he can. You're letting him do this by not standing up for what you deserve. Fine your in love with him, but why should you be the second woman in anyone's life. Realize it's you who deserves better. You're not allowing yourself to get what you deserve, only taking what he's willing to give to you. It's a self esteem issue. Start living for you and find someone who will treat you with the love and respect your looking for. Never accept second to anyone, that's not what you deserve and isn't a good habit to get into.
Take care.
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