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writes:my boyfriend and i have been going out for more than a week now and today we were making out on the sofa and he got under my shirt and touched me through my jeans. I feel it's wrong and i dont want him to think im a slut but i feel so weird and i dont want it to turn out he's using me. he's my neighbor and we live really close but he is also 17 and im 15. I know he likes me though but what if he's faking it all or something. i haven't had the best year so i dont trust people easily please help im so confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): i think he isn't using me because he opened up to me a lot more then some of his closest friends. we have known each other since i was 3 and he was 5. His mother father and 2 brothers like me too and our families are friends. So i think because he was older he was used to that sort of thing but i dont let him do that i block him when he tries and he has stopped. thank you for your advice it really has helped me.
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reader, smartazngirl +, writes (17 December 2008):
 To be perfectly honest, I think he is using you. He's taking advantage of the age difference. Your 6th sense is telling you the truth, he's just pretending to like you, so he can use you.
And a week is so short... If one begins a relationship too fast, then the relationship will die fast. So, it looks like your relationship with your boyfriend will probably go down the drain. I suggest you break up with him, don't let him pressure you into sex! If you're afraid, have a friend, or better yet, 3 friends with you, when you break up with him. You'll never know what he'll pull. Good luck
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reader, eddie0513 +, writes (16 December 2008):
if u dont feel comfortable with it dont do it from my prespective guys who like to move fast are using you from my experience i was used in a relationship ant it cause me to have depression so i say leave him now before u get hurt i dont want to see anyone else gewt hurt if if i dont know them believe me i know ho bad it feels or u can just ask him to take it slow and see what he says and go from there.
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reader, samsmommy +, writes (16 December 2008):
 If you feel like it's wrong, you need to say something to him. He might just be used to doing that because he is a couple of years older, and he doesn't know you don't move that quick. He also could be using you, that happens a lot when you have an age difference that young. But it's hard to tell exactly, not knowing all of the details. The only thing you can do is talk to him, if he backs off, then thats good, but if he breaks up with you or something because of it, then he was probably just using you.
Hope I helped
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