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writes:Hiya,I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months now. At the beginning of the relationship it was like the rush of something new and the heart beating fast and everything, now its just like he is there when i need him whilst i concentrate on my studies.Before my relationship i had really strong feelings for my friend who reciprocaated them but we never acted on it because he had a gf, and all that ever came from it was play flirting on msn. However, all throughout about 5 months i had really strong feelings for him, wouldn't call it love but it wasnt just a crush either. i always had the swooping feeling in my chest and i would go embarrassed like you usually do.i put these feeling to the back of my mind when starting to date my current bf which was easier 1 month in as i didnt see the other guy as much cause he went to a different college after.every once in a while i would think about him or see him and these feelings would come back. Recently i talked to him and he asked if when he passed his driving test he could take me for a ride.He also said that he felt his other relationship was coming to an end as he didnt have the same feelings as he did before.The one thing i keep thinking to myself is that will i regret not acting on it later. The one thing he and i have been wanting to do for a while and not acted on is to kiss. I'm a traditional' girl and think that i can figure out my true feelings with a kiss.What i want to know is if i should go on this ride with him or just to cut all ties and tr my best to forget about him. i dont really want to hurt my bf but dont want to be living my life regreting and wondering what would have happenedps sorry this is a bit long
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reader, wrhillgil  +, writes (17 December 2008):
 Rule #1 NEVER CHEAT! if you are in love w/ your boyfriend then you shouldnt be falling for someone else. Only your boyfriend should have your heart. You have to realize who you wanna be w/ more and could see yourself w/ 4ever. If its your friend then break up w/ your bf, cheating is not worth it! But if you do break up w/ ur bf and go for your friend make sure that your friend has the same feelings for you as u do for him, and make sure he's single b4 u do anything w/ him.
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