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writes:i am asking for a little advice! ive been kinda talkin wit this girl, but just through emails and her house phone bc she didnt want me to have her cell # just yet! well tonight she gave me her cell and told me she wanted me to have it. im the type of guy who likes to text mess. the girl in the morning to tell her good morning and i hope she has a good day, but since she was a little nervous about giving me her number do you think that if i send a text to her tommorrow would be to soon and might scare her away? and if so, how long should i wait before i send her a text in the morning?
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reader, jon23 +, writes (20 December 2008):
jon23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyea, i understand wut u r sayin, but we r not together! we never even hooked up, we just talk and i really think we both have at least a little feeling for each other!
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reader, xxidkxx +, writes (18 December 2008):
 wow, i dont no if my boyfriend was always with another girl i would kill the bitch xD
but if i was with my guy friend and my boyfriend called i would so go see him.. but thats just me.
i have alot more guy friend then i have girls, but i dont Ever hangout with a guy Alone if i had a boyfriend, beasue i no my boyfriend dont like that.. im not saying your girl is doing anything with her friend. but you have to see it from both sides.
you cant just assume anything, you might wanna being it up or talk to her about it, Thatd be kinda werid though, but if you guys have been datein awhile. and, you guys talk about everything. and/or close. she should understnd.
anything else just feel free to ask.
i like giveing advice and just makeing new friends :)
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reader, jon23 +, writes (18 December 2008):
jon23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice! i have another question for yall! around the same time i first asked her out, she has a guy friend that really wants to be wit her; i dont know if they ever hooked up, but i think they did. well since the first time we started talkin she has always told me that she is not talking to him, he is just a really good friend. she even went to vegas wit him to a rodeo and her and her friends told me that all they did was fight over there bc wen she would talk or dance wit other guys he would get mad! she still says that they are nothin and one of our neautral friends said that everytime our friend is at her house hanging wit her brother and wen that guy calls, she always gets mad bc she says he aggravates her and dont leave her alone. well ton. wen i texted her to see wut she was doin, she responded by saying that she was at Nick's house (which is that guy) watching a movie, so my quest. is do u think that they are more than she tells me or how should i take this? im a little confused about this bc last nite i was painting in the gym and we texted each other and i joked wit her about coming help me and then i said, im not gonna make u help me, but if u wanted to come visit u can and she said if i wouldve known earlier i wouldve but its a little late now, which it was! So any advice on wut i should do or how should i take all this??
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reader, xxidkxx +, writes (16 December 2008):
yeah, i agree with the other person.
She gave you Her number.
Me being a girl, im certin thats what she wants.
before me and my boyfriend were dating we talking ALOT threw email, and it was kinda the oppisite for us. He gave me him number and told me to call him sometime. Well me being very shy, i didnt for like ever.
anyways, back to you.
whats the problem with saying Good Morning. nothing lol
so go for it, have fun
try saying something like "hey beautiful, have a good day today" or "good morning" y'know something thats ganna make her smile. and see where it goes fromthere.
-i hope i helped at all.
feel free to keep in contact, i wanna no what happpes good or bad :)
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): Her giving you her # is an invitation. Saying Good morning or have a nice day is wonderful, as long as you don't harass her or flood her inbox I see no harm. Just keep it casual and let her pick up some of the slack to let you know when to prusue a little more.
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