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36-40,
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writes:Im in so much pain right now it is unbearable. The girl i was in love with led me to beliv for a year i may have a chance with her. That has finally faded after months of intense conversations and the thought of knowing i may have a chace. Now that i know it may never be i am crushed and i feel like i can't move on in life. I see no future anymore and i used to be happy always with a great attitude and now i am depressed and pesimistic. She rought out the best in me and now i have turned back and falling apart. Im worried i will never heal and. Im starting to question my reason for living even though i am not suicidal. I have never felt such a broken heart and we didn't even date. I can never picture anyone else with me she was the only one that seemed right. I can't deal with this anymore. Im not a crier but as a type this i have a hard time fighting back the tears. Moving on is impossible and i fear it is only a matter of time before i become irreapairabel. Can anyone help me???
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): You can go on with your life. You will meet other girls. Other girls will be interested in you. One thing you can take away from this is not to lead girls on and, instead, communicate how you feel towards them. This can keep you doing to someone else what she did to you. And, hopefully, the experience made you reevaluate your life and what is important to you. It sucks and a lot of people have been through it. But there are beautiful women (and men) who love to have people pursuing them. It raises their ego and their vanity. You probably aren't the only one she has done it to. So, you can also realize that someone who would lead someone on for a year ISN'T the person you thought she was because good people don't do that to other people. In a weird way, you should feel lucky.
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reader, hierophant +, writes (16 December 2008):
First things first.
Take a deep breath.
Now take another.
Good, now the good news. She brought out the best in you, that's what you said; right? So did she also take it away? Come on man, think about it. Because I've got a good feeling that she didn't. Trust me, in a few days your going to remember that. But right now just plan on going out tomorrow night with some friends. It'll do you a world of good.
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