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Sex education? What should I read?

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Question - (16 December 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2008)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

well i just wanted to be educate myself on sex education..here are a few things i wanna

know...what's a clitoris in a woman???what is a sperm count??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008):

There was a questionnaire at school before going for the public board exams.

The teacher was helping us out.There was a question that asked Sex:Male or female.

The teacher read that question out as well.

There was this hush in the class.A pin could have dropped and we could have heard it.The teacher quickly rushed on to the next question.

Sigh.We are a conservative country.In some ways,its very nice.In some ways its not.

To the poster:

If you are a biology student,we had a chapter on the human reproductive system in X std.That helped to a certain extent to understand the confusing stuff.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008):

OK maybe the Karma Sutra is a bad idea... I don't know, I told you, I'm not good at sex education for kids, read them links, they will explain it all... stuff and bother...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008):

Sorry, the web links will explain all the technical words and everything you need to know about sex, pregnancy and puberty and has diagrams of how girls and boys bodies are different...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008):

Hi DevonleStat here, (now I like that)

OK, try the Karma Sutra then babes, it's actually an ancient Indian Sex book and it is freely available online. It's the best sex manual I know, especially since most of it is about how to keep a good house, how to arrange flowers and how to learn to sew, dance and sing.... This is great sex education, before you start sex, it is good to be skilled in many things and confident in your abilties as a woman. First step to sex is to make yourself very interesting...

Then it goes on too kisses.. there are tons of them... little bites, nibbling bites, etc, etc...

Then it defines the different type of people. Some are shy with sex, some are hot blooded and brave.. the list goes on. It explains why it is necessary to find the right type of partner. It's not use a shy man and a strong agressive woman trying to make a partnership, it's difficult if their personalities and temprement is wrong.

It explains how to have sex in tons of different positions, and how it is done. Western words are very medical I find, and not allways easy to understand. The Karma Sutra explains things a lot more simply, and it's what I learned from when I was your age.

You can also find further information and a video at these websites. Again they are appropriate for your age and try to explain things simply so that you understand.

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/teens/guide-teens-families-4318.htm

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/pregnancy/how-pregnancy-happens-4252.htm

http://www.avert.org/puberty3.htm

Hopefully this will help.. If you have any further questions, if you don't understanding anything, then come back to the aunts and uncles here at dear cupid for further advice.

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (16 December 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntHey DevonleStat,

Here in India, sex is taboo.. You can't or don't talk about sex to your mother or father.. You may talk about it with your cousin.. But not to anyone in direct relation..

Sex education in india is VERY RESERVED.. We don't have sex education in school etc.. It's all what we read here and there.. The indian community is reserved when it comes to sex or any sexual relation before marriage.. So, children in there teens don't know much about sex and stuff..

G'day..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008):

You are young, and I don't like giving out sex information to younger people. Can you not talk to your mother, your sister, and your aunties. They are always the best people to talk to about these things. You present as aged 13-15 (underage) and currently living in India. You should have started on soon be starting having your periods. This is the ideal time to talk to your mother and ask her all about sex, love and marriage. It is best that you talk to her, she knows that you are growing up and she will be expecting to have a talk about sex with you. Go and tell her your old enough for the sex talk now...

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (16 December 2008):

DoubleM agony auntIs sex education in India extremely limited? The clitoris is located near the upper vulva (female genitalia) above the urethra, which is the part that emits urine. The clit is the focal point for primary sexual stimulation because most, but not all, of the most sensitive nerves are located in the clitoral head (or bud). Unfortunately, stimulation at this point is not always very successful with vaginal intercourse.

Physiologically, the clitoris is the female equivalent to the head (tip) of a man's penis, which also contains most of the sensitive nerve endings and typically results in the feeling of a male's sexual satisfaction during intercourse. A woman's vulva, however, is more complex and contains an array of sensitivity that includes other areas, such as the labia (lips), G-spot and more. Sperm count refers to a man's degree of fertility, or in other words, the approximate number of healthy sperm cells per milliliter of his ejaculate.

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A female reader, xxidkxx United States +, writes (16 December 2008):

xxidkxx agony auntokay a ctit is something found in the womans vagina, and when a man(or yourself)rubs agenst it. it will make the woman get turned on/ a sperm count, when a Guys turned on or has sex with a partner hes penis will become hard, and when its just the right time he will cum(sperm) witch IS a good thing.

-everything you could wanna no, i will be able to answer dor you. Anything else,email me.

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (16 December 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntwhat's a clitoris in a woman???

Clitories is situated right at the top of the vagina below the upper skin. It can be seen by spreading the upper lips of vagina. You can see it only through a mirror.. There are a lot of vagina Nerve endings at the clitories and that is why it's stimulation gives pleasure.. When you stimulate or rub your clitories, the whole vagina is stimulated.

what is a sperm count??

Sperm count is the number of live sperm in the semen of a boy. i.e the number of sperm cells that can fertilize the egg of a women.. More the number of sperm counth, better are the chances of making a women pregnant.. !! Less the count, lesser the chances.. !!

I see that you are from India, where I am from.. !! I can understand the shortage of knowledge you have.. U can ask all your questions at this wonderful website and know a lot about sexual education..!!

G'day

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