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*ddie0513
writes:i was dating this girl for three months i fell in love with her instantly but then i felt that she moved fast after three dates after the first time i slept wih her she started playing mindgames saying things like she had sex cause she was insecure and that she loved sex in a relationship and as time went on we had sex she would stop in the middle saying that she was tired i did it to her one day and she was pissed and then in the third month it was my birthday and she said that she a card for me in her pocketbook and asked me to get it and when i did there was another card next to it and i asked her about it and she said that it was a card given back to her from her ex that she gave to him and at the end of that month she slept with me again and after she said all these horrible things to me and a week after she came into my work with some guy can any girl please tell me what was being done to me and while we were together she always asked me to buy her stuff too and i never did one thing wrong to her i treated her like a princess?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): You people have no idea what you are talking about, she was very controlling and played mindgames and asked me to buy her stuff and after she dumped me she used some kid to hurt me, it wasn't her ex and she was talking to another guy at my work and after she dumped me people that know her came up to me and said that she was after everything her last boyfriend had too and she liked rough sex too, I dont know what the hell this girl was doing.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 I'm inclined to say that the problem was, precisely, that you treated her like a princess, and therefore she did not find you interesting. I know this doesn't sound logical, but it is. If you know you have someone at your beck and call, then where's the excitement? If you can't stand your ground, nobody respects you. Not even your girl.
However, that is insufficient. I think she also had an interest in the ex. Her asking you to pick up your card was done on purpose, so you would see she had other interests and she would be spared the awkward moment of telling you.
I think you're better off without her. And even if you weren't, you can't go back. She already asked you to leave and she even let you see her with another guy. There's no point in insisting.
Go out, have beers, have fun, whatever, but live your life in happiness.
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reader, SayWhat? +, writes (16 December 2008):
Eddie, please use some punctuation. Otherwise, it sounds like this girl is nice, but confused. Sorry to hear that. Unfortuantely, this is not something that you can "work on." She needs time and space.
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