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writes:me and my partner have been together 4 years im male 28 shes 24.it started when i move down south to live with her and her lil girl who over the years i became daddy to as her real dad doesnt want to know. we have now our own lil boy hes 19 months and both lil ones are very happy and full of joy, where as me and her have always had problems with trust, dispite this we have both been faithfull....till just the other week.we had a big row over money, bills and she went out with her friends in a huff, she returned next morning at about 11am which has never happened saying she met some people and went to a house party. 4 weeks passed and i noticed i developed genital warts i when to the clinic to check this and was confurmed. after questioning her it turns out things ive been told werent true that only her and him went back the night passed on and they did a lil cocain and she had taxi booked for 7am but it never came ...then some how they ended up kissing and then on the floor with him having sex with her, she says crying to me that it want on for about 10mins as this guy wouldnt stop talking then he stoped the motion and she said thats enough.. she insists that she then sat there crying nd rung a taxi whuch she left his flat and waited 30mins outside for...now i just dont know what to do or beleve i love my kids with all my heart, but i know now that this has ruined the very lil trust that was there... she says "shaking and crying that she loves me and chooses me and shes so sorry... is there any way forward ??? without her walking all over me??sorry is very long just wanted to try to get facts correct
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reader, xxsecretsxx  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 Protect your children, and make sure you take huge measures to not give them the disease such as breast feeding and such.
If you leave however, her daughter won't have you as a father figure anymore and you have to be prepared for that and prepared for a possible custody issue with your son.
The question is do you still want to be with her?
i can't really say much more than that, but if you want more help answer the question and i will answer back.
good luck
-trich
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