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Is having phone sex cheating?

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Question - (16 December 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 December 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *eesey writes:

What do you think about a person that loves having phone sex with another women besides his wife. My boss calls this women on the phone almost everyday just to listen to her have phone sex for him. He does not consider this cheating, I think he is wrong?

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A female reader, gtgw9090 United States +, writes (19 December 2008):

gtgw9090 agony auntThis is most definitely cheating. Unless he's having phone sex with his wife, it is. If he doesn't stop what he's doing, he'll do more than just talk on the phone with her; he'll actually do something about it.

Don't get involved, though. At least I wouldn't. It'll just make it harder during work.

Peace and luck ^^

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008):

yes it is cheating why is he doing it to get off on, next he will be wanting to meet and see this person to see if they are as good in the flesh, each step is one step closer to carrying out the fantasy, hope his wife hears him, then he will find out if she thinks he is cheating you might even hear her without the use of a phone

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A male reader, Mr Guy United Kingdom +, writes (16 December 2008):

Mr Guy agony aunthi

i agree with you. any sex with not involved with your loved one i consider cheating. but him being your boss i wouldnt get involved with it if i were you. you dont want to get fired over it do you.

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A female reader, Twilight#1 United States +, writes (16 December 2008):

Twilight#1 agony auntI agree with you this is wrong.

His wife wouldn't be too pleased to know that he is having such conversations with other women. In my book this is consider cheating to me... I don't think any women would say "Oh its ok hun, I don't care that you call a woman to have phone sex with you..." That is ludicrous... But my best suggestion is to stay out of it... The last thing you want is to be caught in the middle of it...

Hope I helped

Christine ^.^

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A female reader, samsmommy United States +, writes (16 December 2008):

samsmommy agony auntThe rule of thumb that I use for anything I'm confused about is, would I do this if ______ was standing right next to me? If the answer is no, then it's wrong. Personally I wouldn't have phone sex with some guy while my boyfriend is sitting right next to me, so to answer your question, yes, I would say that it is very wrong. Hope I helped.

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