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We think she may have been molested by her dad

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Question - (16 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *arlgoo writes:

My girlfriend has stretch marks on her boobs. Her dad put lotion on her. Her bf asked her about if he had ever touched her and told her that and that she felt extremely uncomfortable and had the same feeling that she did when she was molested when she was younger around 7. What should she do about this? Her mom and dad are recently separated and her mom picked her up from school after her friend told her mom about it and her friends mom told my gf mom. She was afraid of saying anything when this was happening because he has extreme anger and control problems and was afraid he might actually hurt her. What should she do?! and how do i talk to her about this? Her friend told me and my gf was glad that i know now.

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A male reader, karlgoo United States +, writes (17 December 2008):

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karlgoo agony aunther mom talked to her was pissed as hell went to the already planned counseling session with the dad and told the counselor and he had already confessed it, this specific form of abuse happened 7 or 8 times and other things happened. The dad confessed to these. The counselor called protective services and my gf wants to go to court and have him put in prison. The dad confessed this to his parents months before and they did not do anything. The dad's father raped his sister. Can this type of thing run in the family? The dad confesses that it only happened 3 or 4 times does this matter? Can he get squirm his way out of justice's fingers by lying? Does it matter that this happened more than a year ago?

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A female reader, SayWhat? United States +, writes (17 December 2008):

This is a very serious thing you are talking about. You need to tell an adult (or two) that you trust immediatly.

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