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writes:Hi guys i have been with my current girlfriend for 2 months now. Things are going great, and we have just started having sexual intercourse recently. The sex is great, but is sort of getting over shadowed by the way her reactions are during. Her reaction seems like she is possessed by the demon, even before she orgasms.. It is not a mere tremble or shaking, i mean she really goes wild with what seems to be uncontrolable rythmic movements, and her eyes tend to roll up. I know this is seems like i'm doing a great job and ofcourse it makes me feel great knowing i am pleassuring her, but at the same time i wonder if this could be in anyway dangerous for her? I have always made other girls in the past orgasm before just not with this kind of reaction. Oh and the same thing happens when i'm fingering her or performing oral sex.Is it normal for her to react in such way?More importantly is it safe?If there's any indications where this might lead to being harmfull for her, please let me know.Thanks guys, much appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2017): Yeah cases like these, sex is really intentionally for reproduction, not just for an entertainment, there are things that we see things normal but we are really between a war, angels or demons, heaven or hell. It is really connected with God. this sex, rough sex is not really meant for pleasure that will lead to addiction, sex is meant for love. if you put it in a wrong way, then your wrong, you lose, God already defeated demon, so if demon got on you ask by Jesus' name, things aren't just normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): Well I really doo think that she likes it rough and that maybe she wants too se the way you react while she is doing all these crazy movements in bed. Personally I think that if it freaks you out you should end it with her.
-ina
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reader, askJAY  +, writes (18 December 2008):
 i laughed myself out of my chair reading this question. hahahahaha
listen, i had a very similar experience with a girlfriend. it was so freaky that i couldn't continue having relations with her. she would zone out and her eyes rolled back and she ravaged me.SCARY!!!!!! gosh i get the shivers thinking back on it haha!
perhaps you are just not sexually compatible. i don't think our girls are demon possessed as such, just different.
gosh this makes me laugh. i was a bit traumatized by her over zealous and extremely passionate love making style.
anyway man, don't worry about it. she will be fine. if you can still enjoy the sex, then carry on, but i would run!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): She may have a fear of intimacy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): Hey guys thanks for the responses. @ Dr Vendetta, i never 'complained' the fact my gf reacts in such way, i just want to make sure it is a safe thing, and weather many people out there have had this experience.
This is more than just having crazy sex, its come accross to where i thought it could be harmfull for her,and thats why i posted the question.
Oh and I'm pretty sure she's not acting (i should have thot about the title more) or doin this shit on purpose, as like i said it seems to be more of uncontrolable movements, nor she is crazy hahaha trust me.
But yeah thanks to everyone responding.
I'm the guy who wrote the question in case u haven't figured it out haha
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): haha... thats funny.
maybe shes crazy. this woman my husband dated was kinda like that he said. he told me that she would shake uncontrollably, but she was seriously crazy.
i know that im pretty damn freaky in bed, but i dont just lay there the entire time and have my eyes roll back and shit, i mean i get get really loud, like really loud, and i can really really really enjoy sex, but to me it sounds like she is doing that shit on purpose like staging sex because thats how she thinks it goes.. who knows.
i would sit down with her and ask her about it. if thats just her normal thing and she truly just does it uncontrollably then you should be pretty happy that you found a freak... haha i guess.
*mariah*
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): my gf does this also. i can watch her personality change, sometimes a shake of the head before she changes to a wild sexual being. she has just recently admitted she doesn't remember the whole sexual experience. she was sexually abused as a child and i am beginning to think she has a dissociative identity or two. i am just finding this out, so, i am not sure.
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reader, eddie0513  +, writes (16 December 2008):
ive been there myself my ex girlfriend liked rough sex and it botherd me for a while then i talk to my doctor about it it fine some girls just have a higher sex drive than others it doesnt mean shes gonna sleep with everybody thats just the way she likes it with you
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 you're complaining?...
seriosuly.. dont respond to this. No i'm not kidding. me and the other guys here will hunt you down and beat you with 12" dildos.
i, personally am in shock and horror.
A Guy complaing about his gf having crazy sex.
whats the world coming to.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 December 2008):
 "A lady on the street and a freak in the bed." I think you are going to get more pats on the back than anything else, Buddy.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 Can I have your problem instead of the ones I have?
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reader, Crafter  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 You've got a succubus in your bed and you're complaining? Oh my God, dude! You just killed Kenny.
Seriously though. I don't see how she can hurt herself by overreacting. Maybe she just likes to play it rough.
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