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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I work in the same team. We both are 25+ individuals. I mention this cause I want others to know this is not a kiddish matter.I have been observing that he has been talking to this colleague of mine "Say her name is X " (she is also my closest frnd at work) for unusually long hours. Chatting and has started texting now as well. X is a married woman. She is known for being over friendly and close to other male colleagues. Whenever I confront my boyfriend, he says they are just having a small talk and its nothing more than that and that he always gives her close ended answers and never intiated a convo. But he never would show me their conversations. I have a gut feeling that it cannot be one-sided as he claims to be.Also, my friend X behaves as if she barely knows my boyfriend in front of me. Do you think there is a chance they could have more than what meets the eye? Or have it in future ? am i being paranoid without a reason ?
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reader, damag3d  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 Speaking from experience, I would have to say, you are Not being paranoid. First of all, if she is your friend, why isn't she spending more time talking to you. Secondly, why would he Not show you their messages if he knows this is bothering you, unless he is hiding something. The fact that she seems to be so friendly when you're not around and so distant from him when you are would also make me wonder. Are they trying to hide something from you? I can't tell you how to find out other than to confront them both until someone tells the truth.
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