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writes:I can't deciede, please help me!I found out from my boyfriend close pal, that his dating another woman. I dont know if i should confront him about it because he did not tell. Also, he told his friend he loves me very much, but yet can't deciede between me and this other lady. I live in a different country but they both live in the same city. Please help me!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAgain thanks for your response, I'll keep you guy's posted.
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reader, samsmommy  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 He might genuinely care about you, but if you guys live in different countries, you rarely see each other, and he might be looking for a relationship where he can actually see his girlfriend on a regular basis. Long distance relationships can be very tricky. It'd be best to tell him you know he has another girlfriend and see what he says. You never know, he might fess up and tell you what's going on, and why he decided to cheat on you. I hope this helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys for your responce. Am in Ireland and his in the states the same city with this other lady. we see every month or so and tuk hours on the phone everyday atleast 3 times a day. Am just worried cause my kids know him already, although they dont knw if anything is between us yet. I really love this guy and i know he does as well. Again, his only lost his wife just a little over a year ago and all this just make me think he may be taking his time or what do you all think? Plsss i need more help.
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reader, cazza43  +, writes (16 December 2008):
yes confront him,you need to know where you stand in your relationship with him.im sure you dont want to share him with someone else,if he cant decide then you must end it or you will never be happy.goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): Personally I don't think LD relationships work that well. How far apart are you?
Also you only heard a rumour that he was seeing someone else, you should tell him who told you and ask him what happened. Then he'll know that you're only asking to get your facts straight rather than making an accusation. But even if it doesn't work out with him, don't date his friend if he's in another country! Find somebody closer to home =]
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