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writes:What do guys look for in a girlfriend? Brains, beauty, good physique, sophistication? What do they want? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): orginal post by me.
what if i never get a boyfreind and never kissed i am really worried i really.other people have expereice and i have none.i am facing in to my 30s never had is very sad isn,t it really
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reader, Mr Guy  +, writes (16 December 2008):
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it very much depends. some guys want good looks and dont care about much else. but some want kindness and a girl with a sense of humour. it all depends on the type of boy. personaly i dont mind on looks if i like the person inside
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): I asked my husband this question.He says the first thing he noticed about me was my smile.A happy person is attractive any day.How ever beautiful the girl looks,if she goes around with a dull and sad face it wouldn't help.
Unconditional love is the key for getting a place in a guy's heart.Also you should never take away the guy's freedom.As long as my husband remains loyal to me,I give him a free reign in everything else.You shouldn't be too controlling or nagging about the time that he spends with his friends,family etc.,
Outer appearances can only go to a certain extent to get a boyfriend.The beauty of the heart shows in the face.That's how the plain girl who every one thinks is ugly,lands up the best of guys.The glow of her heart reflects in her face.
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reader, Crafter  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 I knew a girl I thought was unattractive, but when I got to know her she suddenly seemed more and more beautiful. At one point I was head over heels for her, but then things messed up. That's not important.
What I'm saying is that you can't hide anything. If you're pretty it will show. If you're good it will show. If you're mean, shallow, possessive - it will show. So basically be who you are, because nobody can keep an act for a long time.
Also try dressing as well as you can. It's not that the clothes matter all that much, but it's that first impression thing which counts.
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reader, ponycarebear +, writes (16 December 2008):
 Yes guys look for beauty in girls.. but looking extremely beautiful would not make you No.1. As long as you love him,respect him,be honest with him and always lend an ear to him,learn to understand him, make him feel he is important, you'd be the space in his heart that nobody can ever fills up.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 Brains, beauty, good physique. Sophistication we could do without, because "sophistication" is a tricky word to define.
We often believe a girl is perfect. When we believe that, the girl might have no brains, no beauty, bad physique, and even be sophisticate and we don't care.
Usually, a person who is happy with herself shows it, and that we like even more than brains, beauty and physique. If you can add that, well, that's the icing on the cake...
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reader, samsmommy  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 It depends on the guy. Some guys are extremely shallow and all they care about is appearance, while other guys would rather have someone that they can talk to, and don't care as much about looks. So every guy is different.
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