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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi guys my girlfriend wants to snog and i said yes. we have been going out for 1 month and we both reallly reallly like each other. the problem is that i dont have the slightist idea how to snog. i really need help quickly please. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi
thankyou so much for your advice. its made me think abou it alot.ive realised that what happens happens and i have to get used to it. you have been a great help =]
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (16 December 2008):
It really should flow pretty naturally. You will want to touch her. Put your arms around her or put your hands gently on her face. Approach her slowly and let your lips touch gently. As you begin kissing you will start to open you lips a little bit and let your tongues explore each other a bit. Do not thrust your tongue into her mouth like you are trying to find her tonsils. It should be much more gentle and slow and tender. Do not become a vacuum or an octopus. These are huge turnoffs. Just take it slow and learn from each other as you go!
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reader, Anonny +, writes (16 December 2008):
I think this may be a common problem with some men!
I am with a man a lot older than you and he doesn't really know what to do either! (Either that or he doesn't like me!!)
I think you have just got to be yourself and relax - look on the internet - there is a website called Wikihow which is quite informative on such matters! - But you're both new to the relationship so there is time to learn!
Good luck!
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reader, xxsecretsxx +, writes (16 December 2008):
AWW!
Hunny just go with the flow. Lip action is great, and usually tongue is a part of it, but to be honest, not too much tongue.
Try to make sure that your not choking her with your tongue, use it but don't abuse it.
Just try to make sure your both enjoying it and dont eat anythig gross before!
Have fun!
-trich.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): It just comes naturally. Face it - your first kiss is never going to be your best, it does take practice. But it will just happen - at least it did for me. As soon as you make a mistake you'll know not to do what you did again, simple as that. She won't dump you for being a bad kisser if that's what you're worried about. Well, she'd have to be incredibly shallow to do that =]
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