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writes:Does it mean anything if a guy asks you if the man you are with is your boyfriend? On two separate occasions I have been out for a drink with two different male friends of mine and this guy that I like, has asked me both times if my friends are my boyfriend. The second time he asked, I told him that I don’t have a boyfriend and he then asked me why. I explained that I had recently ended a long term relationship. He then asked me if I was ok and if I was over him. I said “yes”. He is also quite flirtatious with me. For example, he will put his arm around me, give me a kiss on the cheek when I leave and compliment me on my looks.I’m wary of reading too much into this though as it could just be that he is a flirt with other women too. How do I know this or if he is genuinely interested in me? I’m really bad at deciphering the signs! Any ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): hi
i think it sounds like he likes you. if you like him too i would flirt around him and see what he does. to me it sounds like a classic line to check if a person you like is available for you.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 Of course he wants to know whether you were available. If you don't care about a woman, we don't usually care whether she has someone or not :-), or what she looks like, other than to have fun :-), as in "guys, guess what: she came in that awful red dress again, ha-ha-ha! You mean the one with those laces? YEP!"
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reader, samsmommy  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 He was probably asking if those guys were your boyfriends to see if you were available for him to date, he probably likes you. Unless this is a very common thing and he flirts with everyone, it sounds like he's interested in you. I would flirt with him too and see where the relationship goes from there.
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