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writes:im 30 years old divorced and have 2 kids. i met that guy who happens to be my brother's friend about 4 months ago. we have been dating now for a month. i feel he cares a lot about me. like 2 weeks ago we kissed and fooled around. we still didnt have sex and now i feel he's obssessed with having sex w me. im not ready yet and im afraid he's only in it for the chase and for the sex. he didnt tell me how he feels about me yet. i dont want to push him or anything, but i dont wanna get hurt again. how can i be sure of his intentions? how can i be sure he's taking me seriously? i dont wanna scare him away, yet i hate being in the situation of not knowing where i stand.guys, and girls please help!
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND TELL HIM HON! When you let him know how you feel and why then it's up to him to follow thru or run@
If he stays it pretty much shows his acceptance of your decision if he runs he isn't worth your time anyway.
Don't give in to his expectations if sex is all he is looking for. You deserve someone who is going to be willing to take the whole package. It's ok to consider his feelings but at this point it is YOUR feelings that are the most important. Be true to yourself! This is a DECISION that will FOREVER CHANGE the relationship you have now and WILL help to SHAPE it into the POSITIVE relationship YOU ultimately want.
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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