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writes:in the world there are 2 people i really really have a crush on. but they live so far away. one of the girls is 16, she lives 5/6 hours away by car (but still in england) and the other girl is 16, and lives in New Zealand... and im a 16 year old boy that cant drive, cant afford to go and see these girls, but i really really feel a true true connection with the NZ girl. i know this sounds petty, liking two girls, not being able to move on blah blah, but they are both ridiculously special to me. what shall i do?wait it out, go and see them in a few years?just get over it - but that would hurt me a lot.they both say they like me back as well, and would happily be in a relationship with me if we lived nearer.please help
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reader, Crafter  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 Yeah, life's pain, dude... well, among other things of course.
Let me tell you that I've been there myself and it's not pretty. Actually it is pretty... hopeless. This whole "internet dating" is not all butterflies and sunshine. It's a time bomb that will go off sooner or later.
I'd tell you to forget them, but you won't listen. Can't you just go out into the world and start meeting actual girls? There must be some around where you live, yes?
Besides what kind of solution are you hoping for when you post here? "Yes, go! Go head first in your never ending quest for true love"?
The sooner you shake it off, the better. I promise.
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