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writes:This is a bit of a weird one. I am 19 years old. My boyfriend is 25. We are with each other nearly two years.Though I don't act/look my age (most people think I am 25, my boyfriend innitially thought this from my character before we started to date.) I most certainly have an insecurity that when I am that age, I'll look far older.I was on my boyfriends computer the other day, and what I found in the search engine kind of upset me... he searched for "young" "teen" "pigtails" "schoolgirls"... and other kinky stuff I don't want to mention.Do you think there is something wrong with him? I've repeated what he typed into my search engine, to see what images came up... Do you think he may just be into teenage girls, and when I reach 25 he might go for someone younger?? I have asked him about it, he denied it. I don't care if he watches porn but I don't understand the attraction to young girls. I don't look young, and I'm kind of worried.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (16 December 2008):
If he liked girls who looked like teenagers then why is he with you? (when you say you look 25)
No one can say for sure whether he will still want to be with you in 6 years time. No one can say whether you will want to be with him in 6 years time!
I think your main issue with him is his taste in porn. We get lots of questions on here from girls who are worried because their guy looks at girls online who are nothing like them. It's just a man thing. They go for different types of girls for different purposes (to put it politely.)
My advice is not to worry about your age or his, and just judge him on his character. If it will be it will be. Don't worry about what might happen so far in the future or that worry could cause problems of their own.
Good Luck!! xx
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