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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does he get my hopes up then doesn't follow through?

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago and after he promised we get back together and that he loved me. But to day he was acting so mean when I wanted to tell him hi! In the morning and he was like I need my space. So I don't know why he's putting my hopes up and then ... (65 words)

Why do I urinate every 10 minutes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - can anyone tell me why i keep urinating every 10 minutes... (11 words)

We broke up, are his pictures trying to hurt me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - My ex-fiance is putting up lots of pictures of him with girls on his website- he just went down to Florida. I know I shouldn't look at his website, but it is too tempting. Is he just trying to hurt me because I broke up with him? He's not kissing them, but just the fact that it ... (75 words)

I think I'm being played.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i think im being played so much... ive been seeing this guy for about a month, we were getting really close, and it was obvious we both likes eactother, we'd been out etcetc however last week, to cut a long story short, i found out he was still seeing his ex-girlfriend... (229 words)

Her past bothers me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Well this is my problem, i guess its stupid but i hope not. I know my girlfriend for about a year, were dating 7 months now, we get along very well no problems at all, only thing that is bothering me is her past. we're both 17 and the problem is she was my first serious gi... (254 words)

Girls are confusing, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so back on October the 12th i was sitting at my computer talking to all my friends until i got a random message from someone i have never talked to in my life. This girl tells me her name and how she doesnt know me, but found me on my friends page. I asked her if i knew ... (648 words)

She bails without warning, Why does she act like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so I'm wondering what the deal with this girl is... Just about every weekend now for 5 weeks she's asked me to go out with her on the weekend, and every weekend she blows me off. We hooked up 5 weeks ago, and I hear she likes me, I like her back, but I've basically... (129 words)

I don't like situps, how can I tone up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - wat can i do? I really want a firm stomach, ive tried doin situps, but im shit at them? How do i do them? How many shuld i do a day? Is there any other way to tone ur belly? ... (40 words)

What size do boys like

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - do boys like size 6s or 4s? (English sizes) or do they prefer 10s and 12s? maybe 8s? Skinny or curvy? Wat is sexier? ... (24 words)

I look like I'm 12, but I'm going on 15.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

24 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - wat can make my taller and look older and sexier? I really want to look sexy, but how can i wen i lk like im 12! Im about to turn 15 n people still say i look three years younger than that! What can i do? I jst want to be sexy! ... (52 words)

I lost weight and my boobs droop.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

24 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Dear cupid, ive lost alot of weight and im happy with that nw. But my boobs used to be huge n nw they are small. I dnt really mind this, but wat i do mind is that they also droop. They arnt normal n i hate lkin at myself naked becoz of this. will i ever be able to be naked ... (79 words)

My boyfriend pays more attention to himself than he does me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I jealous of the TV and the Xbox and the dog ... why, because they get more attention from my man, than what he gives me. It is a big issue for me, and it really hurts to see him so involved in TV and DVDs, but not "genuinely" interested in me. :( but what REALLY riles me is ... (178 words)

Does my teacher like me a little too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im 18 years old and im in highschool, for the past 3 years ive been really close to my previous teacher, and i look up to him as a father figure. but ive always had this thought in my mind thats hes had differnt intentions.For example hes always saying flirtatious things, ... (144 words)

I want to ask this boy out, but will be humiliated if he says no.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a big crush on this boy at school. Should i ask him out and get humilated if he says no or should i keep it a secret? But the problem is that he is friends with this girl and she will spread it if he tells her! help me... from confused girl... (63 words)

I'm having an affair with my boss.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have worked at PH for about a 1.5 years. My boss and I are having an affair. He is married with 4 children. He has a wife that I like and admire, and I have a very loving boyfriend. He has flaws that I cannot handle sometimes such as he is lazy and I really want him to ... (132 words)

Our situation is extremeley complicated and I wish that my partner could see that I've finally grown up. What should I do to be a couple again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i have been with my partner 9 years. we have an eight year old son. i was addicted to recreational drugs when we met, though i have since stopped. i lead a avery busy working life and have had little time for my family. i still smoked cannabis up untill recently when something ... (302 words)

Should I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So i dated this guy for 2 years and became completely attached and in love with him. He breaks up with me alittle after 2 years and i am absolutely devasted. I try to move on but am never successful at it and it hurt even more because we stopped talking. About a year later we ... (420 words)

Am I in love with my best friend's brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I think I'm in love with my best friend's brother. It's awkward cause I've never had a boyfriend, and he has a girlfriend, he's 22 btw, I'm only 16. His friend likes me, he's 19 but I don't like him but my best friend likes his friend cause she works with him, if ... (78 words)

Why are most of the guys I meet pervy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well heres the deal why are most of the guys i meet incredibaly pervy. Im 16 and most of the time i cant meet deccent guys. like one time i was walking thru my local uni campus and i got beeped at and then some guy came up to me and asked me out and he seemed nice so i... (175 words)

He knows how to make a girl feel wanted when he wants, last time we met though he called me very nasty names. Should I get back with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya xxxx i'm 14 and i just wanna know if there's chance of me nd my ex gettin bk togetha!!!!! i was seein him for about 3 months or sumthin which is quiet a long time but nayway we split up about 3 days ago and i was the one who ened it and have regrets but sometimes i dont! ... (182 words)

Is he just showing he cares?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im friends with this guy, weve know each other a while now, only he keeps putting his arms around my stomache n stuff like that and he keeps constantly hugging me. I dont mind him doing it but does he want to go further than friends or is he just showing he cares?... (54 words)

Tips for getting clear skin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone have any good tips for getting really clear skin, anything that works ? ta x... (17 words)

Do my parents have any legal hold over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and my boyfriend is 22. My parents arent happy and are saying they wont let me see him and stuff. Do they have any legal hold over me to stop me from seeing him, or am I legally allowed to do what I want?... (46 words)

Can I get pregnant if I have unprotected sex during menstruation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - can i get pregnant if i have unprotected sex during my menstruation.... (12 words)

Finally admitted infidelity after 17 years

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age - I am posting to this group hoping to get some support. 17 years ago, I was married for 5 years just had our first baby. My husband tells me has some kinds of bugs in his pubic hair. Stupid, naive, catholic school girl like me looks it up and finds out it is pubic lice. He tells ... (725 words)

Underage kids and sex - whatever happened to youth?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

24 October 2007 (?) - I have to say that i am noticing a lot of KIDS aged 12ish asking questions about sex. What on earth is happening? Or are they maybe older and just putting this age? But, what has happened to kids and their youth? They are under age and shouldnt be having sex at that age and if ... (98 words)

Am I crazy to be irritated by this whole situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend's ex girlfriend (whom he was with for 3 yrs) prior to me, asked him to "cosign" a $10,000 student loan for her. Personally I think its just another way for her to hold on to him and stay present in his life, so they have "reason" to talk or, if need be, meet up. ... (459 words)

I got married 3 months ago and feel trapped!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I ive been in a relationship for the past 5 years and we have a 4 year old boy. I have a great home and dont want for anything materialistic but feel very trapped. I got married 3 months ago. Months before the wedding day I was having second thoughts but was convinced it was ... (197 words)

I've just found out that a man is moving in with my girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfreind recently moved to ireland to start a new job i live in england we see each other every 2 weeks ,she was sharing a house with a girl but now she is moving out ,the company own the house so my girlfreind has no say who moves in .I've just found out that a man is ... (89 words)

I think she's falling for me. How do I let her down gently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay well im 16 atm, and theres this girl 14. I have known her since the day she was born, and we have always been soo close. See tells me everything, and can even help me out when im down. but recently she has broken up with her bf, and im worried she is starting to fall for... (139 words)

Is there an ointment or gel that I can use to make intercourse less painful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been in a relationship since 3 years im a virgin me n my partner really want to have sex we have tried it a couple of times but couldnt't really do it cause everytime he tried 2 insert his penis it caused me pain ,could u suggest somethig that i could do 2 avoid the pain ... (74 words)

Any ideas as to how to get him to hug me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and the guy i like is 17, he can flirt with me a bit but we are genrally just friends, he doesnt know i like him as more. I used to be closer to him and he always used to hug me etc, but we have since grown apart. getting closer again i am wondering on any ideas as to ho... (85 words)

How can I see this differently so that it doesn't hurt as much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is in her mid 20s and I am three and a half years younger. She is everything I ever wished in a woman that I want to be with. She shares all of my interests, sense of humor, and perspective on life. I never thought that I'd meet someone who I'd feel about this way ... (444 words)

I want to end it but I can't. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, heres my problem. im with this guy who is also with someone else and i thought i would be ok with it but now his other girlfriend has announced she is pregnant.the bad thing is that i want to end it with him but ive fallen in love with him and he makes me happy.i want to ... (70 words)

Her unfounded suspicions are destrying our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm in a lesbian relationship, we have been together for two years. She does not trust me at all. Shes so disrectful to me. Always calling me vulgar names. Everyday I'm accused of cheating, with the neighbors, people walking down the street, family, people on the bus, ex ... (125 words)

Are we more than friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well im 15 and there is this guy who i have known all my life (hes 17). I love millions as a friend, and almst like a brother. The other day i was a bit upset and so he was cuddling up to me and comforting me and then kissed the top of my head, also on the coach home we feel ... (102 words)

Three is a crowd

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Since i have been little me and my 2 best friends have always been a group of 3, we were always inseparable and everything we did would be together. i guess 3 is a tricky number butwe always got over it and no one got left out, if they did it never seem to be me. anyway re... (112 words)

Help with feminine issue

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay wll recently started my period, and i swim so i guess ill have to go straight into using tampons. the prob is i have tried a few times, but it feels really uncomfortable and sometimes painful. am i putting them in wrong or something ? please help. x... (50 words)

I read her secret diary

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - In my wife dairy, she has a crush for a marry man at her work. In the dairy she stated that how much she love his smell, touch, and hug. She also mention that she have problem concentrating at work when he is around and dream about making love to him. She also mentions about ... (85 words)

Yeah, I'm hot for teacher

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a prob! okay so yeah theres this amazing guy who is incredible he is the sweetest and the funniest dude i know! but... here it comes! hes my teacher!! i hate it so much!! i mean why cant i just have a crush or whatever on a boy that is ages with me!! ohh no i have ... (624 words)

Don't say give it time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im almost 16 i was with a guy who was 17 for almost 7 months. Due to reasons that were partly my fault he broke up with me about 3/4 weeks ago. It was a bit of a messy break up and we both said some nasty things. I've apologised and even tried to be civil, even friends ... (184 words)

The differences between males and females

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

- Why is it that men are nearly always responsible for crimes. Not just murders and roberies but also child abuse. Yet oddly the ones who can be the most vile are actually women (cat fights and veral abuse). Can anyone explain that?... (43 words)

Is there more than I'm seeing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15 and there is this guy (17) who i have known all my life. I trust him more than anyone and he is closer to me than my best friends. Our families are really close, which is great and we often go away together, but we have always only been friends. Anyway last night he wa... (147 words)

If a pregnant lady has sex with another male other than her baby's father will it affect the baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) age 41-50 - if a pregnant lady have sex with another male other than her baby's father will it affect the baby... (19 words)

I think he gave me the ring just to "trap" me, make me feel better about having sex before marriage. He used to say if I didn't continue sleeping with him he wasn't going to "set a date." Should I stay?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - I want to know if my ex-fiance proposed for the right reasons. We are broken up now (I broke up with him), but I still need some resolve. Anyway, after 2 months of dating last year he proposed. When we first starting dating I told him I was waiting to have sex until marriage, ... (384 words)

Will it hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Heey, My boyfriend wants to finger me and I'd let him but I'm just worried about how many fingers he can get up :S.. I've fingered myself before and I can only get 1 up and I think he thinks he'll be able to get more up.. Nd if he tries to get more up will it hurt?? xx... (65 words)

Can we get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i really need some good advice. Me and my boyfriend had been together for a year and a half, then two months ago i broke up with him, although now i regret it so much becasue i was just confused and i didn't really know what i wanted. I told him i wanted a break then after ... (350 words)

He kisses me but calls me on my twin sister's name. Confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am seeing this guy who i really really like!! The problm is i have a twin sister, he keeps on holding my hand, keeps on kissing me, but calls me my sisters name!! i fell out with him, but then soon made up. He did it again last night, his friends were like its not... (113 words)

He's told me he's been talking to a girl at work he finds "hot"... will he cheat??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya, i am 21 and my partner is 18 we have a 3 month old baby, everything was fine intill a few nights ago when he came in frm work i knew sumthing was up , i asked and my partner said no everything was fine but i jusr knew so we stared fighting and he told me that he was ... (217 words)

Is it love or addiction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Aunts, My original post is here is you want to read: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-treat-her-like-a-princess-but-she.html I hav'nt spoken to my ex since sunday night, i was quite angry and I didnt part on good terms. Her depression along with the ups and dow... (510 words)

Attracted to another member of the staff, who acts friendly, maybe too friendly? Do I follow my instincts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age - I started a new job 2 weeks ago, I found I was instantly attracted to another member of staff, he's been very friendly, just a really nice person. Within the week he began touching me slightly on my shoulder and back when we were talking. Asking sutle questions but just being ... (128 words)

Not feeling wanted

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, well ok here goes nothing i really like this guy but my parents dont they think i can do better but i dont like nobody else he is all i think of and i dont really think he likes me but he aint afraid to be around me at night when nobody is around what do i do pleas... (64 words)

Is there a way to normalize my periods?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i haven't got my periods for the last 3 months.I've done a home pregnancy test twice and the results are negative.I have a doubt that i might not be getting it due to stress and change of location.I was doing night shifts for a long time.I'm now leading a normal life.Are there ... (64 words)

Should I make a move on halloween?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this girl my best friend since like 2006.... we always hang out together talk on msn. We both have boyfriends (we go threw them very fast) She's very pretty, I've grown so close to her. We always call each other sisters. The point is i fancy her. And last night we ... (134 words)

She only shows the kids attection and is considering leaving me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) age 41-50 - My partner and I have two children and I love a care for her deeply. I love to show her affection but she does not show me any. She tells me that 'this is me, I can't change get use to it, but she does show our children affection. Recently she has told me she often thinks of ... (155 words)

Should I tell her I'm a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a little scared, i'm pretty young (17) and theres this older woman (31) and we have been together for 14 weeks were not even thinking about having sex yet its all making out and touching... the problem is i lied i said i wasn't a virgin and i am .... i don't know how to ... (85 words)

Do I take a step back, or be persistent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have met a girl who for the best part of a year was just eye contact across a pub, after some Dutch courage we ended up having a date in which I cooked for her, we had a great time and stayed up until the early hours of the morning and she was asking all sorts of intimate ... (494 words)

White discharge from my nipple. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is really embarresing, but some white discharge from the nipple, that normal? I'm kinda scared, and totally embaressed. ... (24 words)

I fantasize about having sex with my mother

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have asked this question before but am still curious as what to do. I am now 17, my mum is 43. 6 years ago, i was living with my mum, i was in the need of the drink, so went into the kitchen to get one, only my mum was in the way on the worktop reaching for something on the ... (220 words)

I'm dating a girl who lives with her boyfriend. Can you help me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Hi I met a girl though the internet 7 months ago. She lives with her boyfriend who she has been with for 9 years, 6 of them living together. I new this from the start but just thught it would be a sexual relationship. We struck up a real good connection and have amazing... (411 words)

Does he love me? Has he cheated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have been with my fiance 4 years and we have a son up until my son was born our relationship was troubled. My fiance used to go out clubbing and never come home he would say he stayed with friends. I found texts off his ex and found out they had been phoning each other he ... (190 words)

How can I stop dwelling on the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi have been with my boyfriend 4 years we have a son who is one the first 2 years of our relationship was rocky he would go out and never come home he would text his ex girlfriend behind my back he would tell me he love me one minute and the next tell me he wanted nothing more ... (149 words)

Is having a realtionship with your second cousin wrong and is it incest?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is having a realtionship with your second cousin wrong and is it incest? ... (17 words)

I feel she is inconsiderate to me as concerns her relation with her ex, and others have noticed too she's putting me in an incomfortable position. Am I being unreasonable/jealous?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a great girl 8 months ago. We get on fantastic. But a little problem is starting to put tension and barriers between us. we have run into her ex b/f on a number of occasions. On the first occasion at her local pub she chatted with him for a large portion of the n... (681 words)

Abused twice - by a supposed friend and a coach. It wasn't my fault, and I'm scared...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I was sexually assualt by a friend who i thought was a good friend at secondary school he did unspeakable things to me. and said some nasty things, now words trigger things of or comments. It caused me so many problems then. I eventualy went to my tutor and talk to him about ... (283 words)

He joked about race and women, so I ended it due to cultural differences and miscommunication. No we're back together, am I being too sensitive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a confused state and feel like I'm in a no win situation with my boyfriend. We had an intense relationship for three months then, due to huge cultural differences and miscommunication, I ended it. It was just too hard being with him. He'd joke about things like race and ... (322 words)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age - why did my ex husband say he wanted to get back with me,after a year then i said give me abit of time to think,and i said ok lets give it ago and he said its to late he has found someone else and wants to be with her.the new women told me she was no threat,but she still hangs ... (130 words)

We have a relationship and I feel this other woman from miles away who he told me not to worry about in the beginning, is still in the scripts, calling late at night etc.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupids My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months, (I pat myself on the back) the relationship has been growing very nicely and we are so in love with each other. He has the best qualities i need from a man and he really knows how to excite me. Our sex life is divi... (416 words)

I want a baby but my mum would kill me!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I want a baby but im only 15. I'm not sure if my bf wants one but i think he does but i no if i get pergent my mum would kill me so what should i do???... (38 words)

I am approaching the point of giving her an ultimatum.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - God I need help. I haven't slept in two days, and am an absolute wreck. Trying to make a long story short, past year been trying to have a child with no success, extremely stressful. Lately my wife has become distant. She said she is depressed and down and needs time to ... (433 words)

What is appropiate after a week dating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

- What do you think is 'appropiate' to happen between a bf and gf when the have been in a relationship for a week only. Do you think the guy puting his hands up the girl's top is inappropiate? Or ok if she wants him to? If a guy does this after a week of being in a relationship ... (82 words)

She's a big wimp and can't stand pain... how can we make sex better for her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

24 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - To make a long story short, the girl I'm currently dating lost her virginity to me...which is nice. However, she is in her late 20's. A little odd, but not really the issue. The problem is, sex with her is difficult, meaning she can't seem to relax and let it happen. she ... (217 words)

His two-faced sister is always talking to his ex and being mean.

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's sister has been communitcating with my bf's ex. All the communications have been mean stuff about me. They call me mean names, talk bout how they wish my bf was still with his ex, plot ways to get them back together..and so on. I have no idea what i should do. My ... (80 words)

The stars were not in favor of our love... or are they?

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24 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 9 months with a woman I have known for years. She is currently gettin divorced,but I started as her friend through the whole thing and then we started gettin serious. I fell in love w her as did she..we both know it was wrong cuz legally ... (96 words)

I've decided to divorce my husband. Any advice to make it easier?

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've decided to divorce my husband. It's definately not an easy decision to come to, but I know that it will never work between him and me. I was just wondering if anyone who has gone through a divorce has any advice to give about the whole thing. Are there any tricks to make ... (102 words)

I told him I wanted a serious relationship, yet showed him I'm physically attracted to him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - The man that i had a serious disagreement before two weeks called me again. I had decided not call him again and i was very disappointed about the way that he spoke to me before two weeks because it seemed that he wasn't really interested in me. Now that he called me again i ... (257 words)

My right breast is two sizes smaller than the left.

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey im 19 an my right brest is like two sizes smaller than my left... will they stay this way?? or is there anything i can do to help me with my comfit??? i just started seeing a guy it been 5 months an am shame to be naked infront of him... ... (52 words)

Do you think she cheated on me?

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24 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have no idea why this is bothering me so much. Usually this type of thing never bothers me, and I do not know why it is bothering me now. My girlfriend has always acted bi-curious, and it never bothered me. She would tell me things, like, her fiend (who is female) is the o... (430 words)

I really don't want to upset her, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, there is this guy, and I am absoloutly bananas about him. I'm pretty darn sure he likes me too (like really sure), but there is one problem: my friend. She is a total bitchy bitch bitch and I hate her sometimes, but deep down I love her. (y'know?) ANYWAY, she cl... (280 words)

My brother would do stuff to me while I would sleep.

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 16 and a few years ago my brother would do....stuff to me at night when he thought I was sleep, and it kept going on because I didn't know what to do. He would make me give him handjobs and blowjobs and he would finger me and stuff. during the day he would put his hands ... (173 words)

Break up or go on with this doubt.

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid my bf broke up with his gf before he met me. at least thats what he said. they broke up because the girl dont trust him as he is coming to the university which we both are studying in right now. the x gf is back at his home town. he said they didn't talk face to ... (148 words)

Abuesed for ten years.

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was sexually abused by my stepfather for about ten years and i was so afraid and ashamed to tell anyone..i finally got the courage to tell my boyfriend at age 17 and and he helped me to tell my mother..so i wrote my mother a letter telling her, she cried and talked to me ... (179 words)

Do you think we'll get back together?

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and i are good friends but we dated and we were in this beautiful realationship but then my best friend betrayed me by saying she say him with another girl and it wasn't true i found out...then his mom died 3 years ago and i said to swear on his moms grave and ... (121 words)

Two different words who are forced to meet but can't

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey.i am a christian girl,who has everything she wishes for ...that is a lie ,i love a muslim guy(love him more than i ever loved anyone)he is my boyfreind but people just want me to leave him (i have 19 boys chasing after me sendin me cards they r christian)freinds who met my ... (169 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to respect my property?

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how do I get my boyfriend to respect me and my property? I constantly ask him not to look certain things up on my phone and computer because I find it offensive, and he just totally disregaurds my feelings... (39 words)

Do I want him back or am I just lonely?

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey i think im still in love with my ex, i left him but some days i wish he was back so bad an the next i dont care.. i dont wont to ask for him back if this is jus because i am lonly, do i wont him back????... (50 words)

Should I read too much into this?

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I was eating in a restaurant with my guy who can't say he loves me (A question from last week. He tells me to drive carefully - out of the blue - or something similar all the time.) the other night and we were discussing our daughters whose birthdays are three weeks apart. They ... (166 words)

Can someone tell me how to prevent leaking during my period?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Ive had my period before But I sometimes leak at school! Its happened 4 times already. And my school has a strict dress code so if I want to tie my jacket around my waist its dress code and i get a refrel!-.- I need some advice.How can i prevent leaking?do i si... (113 words)

I have pleanty of offers, but it's her I want.

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24 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i'd been with this girl for bout a year im 30 she's 22 and a little stunner!! she moved in almost immediately cos She lived at her Nan and Grandads(who were v nice people and liked me) as most of her family seemed to use each other and back stab and they didnt hav much to do ... (658 words)

She says she'd never cheat on me.

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24 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i am a 28yo Male who has been in a live in relationship for 1 year. I was cheated on in my last relationship and I found out early on that my current girlfriend had cheated on her last boyfriend and one when she was in her teens. My problem is she hasn't really explained... (230 words)

He doesn't even know that I exist!

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 and in the begining of this school year I had a serious crush on a guy, i saw him on the Grade 9 orientation day, he looked really cute, I liked him immediatly after I saw him. He looks like he is in his early teens, no more than 15 or 16 years old, but later on in this ... (157 words)

How can I make him leave me alone?

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i dont know what to do at the minute, i broke up with my boyfriend a couple of days ago, because he was over protective of me, and i didn't like it, but yesterday night i was drinkin with friends and he decided to threaten some guys that i was talking to, i told him to leave me ... (71 words)

Why is he making me feel guilty about wanting to remain quiet about some things.

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Over the summer my boyfriend's bestfriend met this girl and he fell... FAST. He set up a meeting for her to meet all of our friends. ...And i didn't like her. Recently he found out and kept asking me why. My boyfriend said it's because he values my opinion. (Me and his ... (206 words)

He's in communication with his ex, but says she initiates the contact.

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24 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this guy 3 weeks ago. We have been hanging out alot and it is going great. He text each other all day every day and call each other every night. However here is the curve ball. He is just getting out of a bad relationship. He said that his ex cheated on him and that ... (275 words)

Is it bad that I really didn't care.

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - so i broke up with my boyfriend today and he seemed really hurt but the part i really feel bad about is apart of me really doesnt care is that a bad thing?... (33 words)

Will we be happy together again?

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am love my ex-boyfriend he knows it....Okay we were in this great realationship and then 2 weeks ago my best friend got jealous because i was spending time with him and then she told me that she saw him with another girl and well i was scared because at the time i thought it ... (150 words)

I've been sneaking out of the house.

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been sneaking out of my house and doing bad things. Last weekend me and my friend went to my friends house and stayed the night and said that we were staying at my other friends house. The next morning they called my friends mom, the girl who we said we were staying the ... (168 words)

I don't know how to go further with him,

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for just over 8 months now and I want to do more stuff with him.. not like sex just a little bit of fun like me wanking him off or somethin but I don't kno how to tell him or let him kno i want to do other things. I know he wants to because he's always ... (94 words)

They both like me, I'm confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - HI, I have a problem. Never before in my life have I ever felt like this before, but now I do. I like two different guys and I don't really know why. I usually like one guy, or I have a boyfriend or something, but right now there are two guys I like. What should I do? I've ... (95 words)

Has anyone experienced cosmetic surgery?

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24 October 2007 (F)

- has anyone had any experience with having cosmetic surgery abroad? there are a few things i really want done but the prices in the UK are among the highest in the world. i could get it done a lot cheaper abroad and its not that it would be done on a butchers table somewhere its ... (177 words)

Does the new guy like me, How do I break up with my boyfriend?

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there! I've got a little problem. The main thing is that I'm not sure whether this guy I like still likes me or not, but to give you more help, I've decided to tell you the full story (short version). Well, here it is... October 4th, my team (half of grade 8) went t... (528 words)

This woman is my world but she's married.

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24 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 19 years old and i have been with this 31 year old woman for 8 months. she got 4 kids n she is married. but since we been together its been the best time of my life and hers even her family thinks that im the best person for her. she has no idea that im 19 she thinks im ... (123 words)

Are there any good looking decent men available?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ya all im 18 and female and just wanted to no what it is a guy wants in a girl? and what a girl should do to make a lad/man love her for who she is? i do not want to change and all i want is to be happy and loved. i have low self asteem and just need a boost. i have not had ... (116 words)

I suspect there's more to the story

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Its been maybe a week now that me and my boyfriend I mean "ex-boyfriend" broke up and he's really confusing me. We had been going out for almost 2 years we were each others first everything. Then all of a sudden out of no-where he said it was time to break up. Hes always ... (165 words)

I'm not sure that honesty was the best policy

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24 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been experiencing some very strong vibes from my girlfriend. She almost seems reluctant to tell me what is wrong. I know it has something to do with me, and I think I know what the problem is. She once told me, she would believe me until I lied to her. I do admit I lied ... (172 words)

Why does it hurt again after three years?

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My Ex and I were in a long distance relationship, which we ended nearly three years ago. The break up was mostly mutual, and we agreed to a pseudo open relationship. We did see each other twice in the following two months, and I always thought we would see each other again ... (412 words)

Why am I stubborn about communicating?

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I haven't talked to my bf since Sunday night. We've been going out for 1 year 8 months and lately we've been getting into little arguements that usually get resolved. My bf got mad the other day because he thought I was lying to him, or rather "BSing" him. Let me explain..he ... (451 words)

Life doesn't wait so why should I?

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24 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a serious relationship with this man for 6.5 years now. We finally moved in together this last May. He told me last Christmas he wanted to try living together for atleast 6 months before we take the next step (getting engaged). However, he was previously married ... (125 words)