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36-40,
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writes:I have worked at PH for about a 1.5 years. My boss and I are having an affair. He is married with 4 children. He has a wife that I like and admire, and I have a very loving boyfriend. He has flaws that I cannot handle sometimes such as he is lazy and I really want him to educate himself, because I am studious and hard working therefore I beleive he should be too. Anyway, I love both of them. My boss does not really make me feel good since I am not the only person he is cheating with. There were 4 before me, so what should I do? I love my lazy boyfriend, but I cannot help but always ponder about my boss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): the best thing you can do is to involve your boss's wife in the affair too; she might enjoy being in a three-some, and you might like it too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): I am not sure what your question really is?
Your having an affair with your boss, admire his wife - that shows, your boss isn't making you feel very special, he's an a/hole, you love your lazy boyfriend, that shows, your onto it in all things, that shows.
Really you are a selfish wee thing. I keep wondering what your men say about you????!
Start to grow up and instead of spending your time screwing around with by the sounds of it little satisfaction and put your studious hardworking self into becoming a better human being. Personally I hope you loving boyfriend dumps you as he may be lazy but he is not
a tart!
You need to stop this affair, let your partner know who he has been spending his time with and send your bosses wife a big bunch of flowers telling her she married a cheater like you! Sorry doll, no sympathy.
And your not really hurting anyway by the sounds...
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reader, rcn +, writes (25 October 2007):
 You're right you seem to be extremely hard working.
You have a boyfriend, but having an affair with you boss. What a piece of work. Him not making you feel good because you weren't the only one he's had an affair with. That just tell me he's been a piece of crap for a real long time.
If you like his wife so much, why don't you tell her what you and her husband are doing?
You need to tell your boyfriend what you're doing too. That's a must. Your relationship now is one of deceit. A relationship is to be deceit free. You owe it to him, and he deserves to know the truth.
You need to end it with the married boss. That's just wrong. You have no right to be with him. He all ready said "I do" to someone, and that someone WAS NOT YOU." He's a dirt bag, and your actions prove that you are too. There are quite a few other choice words I can use to state your behavior, but since there are people from different age groups on here, I have to refrain from using them.
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