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writes:Its been maybe a week now that me and my boyfriend I mean "ex-boyfriend" broke up and he's really confusing me. We had been going out for almost 2 years we were each others first everything. Then all of a sudden out of no-where he said it was time to break up. Hes always telling me that its hurting him real bad and that I should have just listened to him and we would have been together. Yet he promises that were gonna get back together one day when were old enough to do wat we want and when there's less restrictions, he says that he's saving the love he has for me inside his heart and I don't know if I should keep up my hope or give up? Cause I see his pain and we still kiss cause we cnt help our selves and he does suffer I can see it. I think there's more to the break up then wat he says
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reader, gmapeaches +, writes (24 October 2007):
 I am of the school of thinking that love shouldn't be quite that difficult. having said that.. I too have done what you are doing. and waited and waited.. its ok to love this person and to hope that it will turn out how you want it to.. but by all means live your life.. keep your eyes open and keep your options open for that guy that is ready is right.. don't hide away and wait live your life.. keep hope but keep on going.. you know that if you love something set it free thing.. it works here too.. if its meant to happen it will.. you could meet someone else and down the road still hook up with this person.. just don't waste a day... thats my best advice.. good luck.
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reader, k821 +, writes (24 October 2007):
Ifeel your pain. I am going through something similar right now. I keep telling myself if its meant to be it will be in the end. If you love him and he loves you don't give up hope. Maybe it is just bad timing right now. Hang in there things will get better. You will be okay no matter the outcome. Give him some space and just pray that he figures everything out.
Take care.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (24 October 2007):
 I think there is more to the story too. I can't tell you what that is, only he can. It could be parental influence, peer influence or that he just wants to experience dating around before he commits to one person. Try to get him talking about what the real issue is. If he can not do this openly and honestly and continues to want this "break up" then I think you should enlighten him to how people behave during a breakup. They don't go around kissing each other, etc. He can't have it both ways and for your own emotional well being, you need to have some finality to this. Don't wait for him to come around when he is ready to settle down either, get on with your life. If things work out down the road, good. Take care of you.
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