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writes:Theres this girl my best friend since like 2006.... we always hang out together talk on msn.We both have boyfriends (we go threw them very fast)She's very pretty, I've grown so close to her.We always call each other sisters. The point is i fancy her. And last night we were organizing what to do for Halloween.And i asked her "Please don't make out with me" and she got really into the convo... really making it a big thingshe has always been a tomboy and a real flirt with me.. she has been in my bed alot.... i really like her....Should i make a move on halloween or should i leave it alone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Make a move but if she rejects you, just say you were drunk and didn't mean it seriosuly, Works everytime
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reader, cole813  +, writes (25 October 2007):
 U should make the move slowly to see if she feels the same way
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reader, gayguy16 +, writes (25 October 2007):
 hey, If you want to know for sure try and make the scene romantic but not like candles n stuff,,,have the music on you both like if your in a house, try and carry on with her, comment on what's nice about her,, etc,,it always best to be able to know if you want to make a move on her there's not alot of ppl around, it takes pressure off you incase you do make a move but you wrong,,just be sure its what you want,, you may not have a friend in the future, and if you do make a move and your wrong then there's alway the words,,,"SORRY, I MADE A BIG MISTAKE",gd luck
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reader, gayguy16 +, writes (25 October 2007):
hey, If you want to know for sure try and make the scene romantic but not like candles n stuff,,,have the music on you both like if your in a house, try and carry on with her, comment on what's nice about her,, etc,,it always best to be able to know if you want to make a move on her there's not alot of ppl around, it takes pressure off you incase you do make a move but you wrong,,just be sure its what you want,, you may not have a friend in the future, and if you do make a move and your wrong then there's alway the words,,,"SORRY, I MADE A BIG MISTAKE",gd luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007): Why dont you just talk to her first, then decide if you still want to make that move? She may not feel the same way about you and you will lose a good friend.
take care
xx
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reader, Asexy +, writes (24 October 2007):
 What do you think will happen if you make a move? If you think there's a possibility that it will ruin the friendship, then TALK to her first.
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reader, Its_X_ +, writes (24 October 2007):
 I wouldn't make a major move on her but it does sound like she tends to like you back from the way she acts. Try to go with the flow on Halloween. Make sure you two are alone if you try to do anything, because if you have people around you then it might embarass her or create a problem since you both have boyfriends. Go with your instincts, she probably does like you back. Good Luck.
Love
X
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reader, darksecretangel +, writes (24 October 2007):
 Hey
well i think you should make up your own mind about this, but youve got to think about the consequenses. for instance are you sure that she is flirting with you, intentionally or is she just a flirty type of girl. Also think about how your friendship would be affected by what you will do on halloween. If you dont think it is going to be badly affected, then you should do it. however if you think that this will indeed ruin your friendship with her then dont. Just take a chance.
good luck x
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reader, blazee +, writes (24 October 2007):
 heya.are you sure she feels the same way?most girls are close at this age, exactly how you described, id be careful not to ruin your friendship with her
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007): if you are comftable then do it,
why wait til hallaween,
do it now!!
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (24 October 2007):
 Ask. Be direct. She could be one of those people who when she is joking around, others take her seriously. Let her know your intentions.
Also how would this affect your relationship with your bf? How would this affect her relationship with her bf?
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